Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

& u) i/ u# `" m. C, }$ dWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
, h* B, `& r3 c; y9 H1 p: sTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

$ L$ |- {3 C4 R( m' ]  d, h2.        Speak up when she’s good
. W; {9 v2 P/ L- a! I$ YIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
; s0 b8 n( c9 SFrom no to yes
; m2 X' `" d7 k% c' o; l$ A: j* u, Q
% E5 f, Z/ Q( {5 A0 D, c, zWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
+ X8 F: @$ j5 Y
1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
4 c+ X4 B6 w6 O* }% {, DTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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