Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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! S7 |+ S4 `( ^3 h# k* q; r% p( ~While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

( u8 \( j2 t6 L$ X1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
% u! m8 D9 L/ Z. O+ ]8 STry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
* f4 @9 M+ q9 L9 f: e5 aIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
7 R; |$ b( T! i/ v: D
( U/ G9 a+ i# ?5 w* c- J/ }% Y' L" hWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
( ?  v& X6 J5 z+ H% I- x1 w
& i: I- c& P) \' b3 N1 C1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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