Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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1 @. J4 B; h' R* [3 @  H* EWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
1 G% [: C" u+ kTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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8 F$ x9 b* e; S. z1 L2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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& Q- P5 ^, ]& ~/ D+ O) T3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

2 q5 F3 @$ ^! N  C  s, AWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
0 o" q1 _$ n3 z2 ^9 e8 FTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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