买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. , C: s/ y8 U7 R! _ / C; f; t: i6 u: c4 C* I$ ?不送钱,鲜花一般送在入土的墓地里。+ n% }* B4 @9 O' t4 R