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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters& C9 ]* C' A, A( i' E. N! P5 a
% ~2 r3 k- y' [ V# }2 \There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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( T2 q2 H& p7 A' [& VYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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) ^/ u2 z. I" |# T) Z5 t" Z* d, xHow are you?
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6 m; m+ P+ j* v4 [This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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2 Y9 }1 k/ v# zThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine"., r3 j+ n" t' I2 O
# z s6 [" }: o% O+ [3 p% hFine, thanks.
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# z5 b+ ~3 u9 [% H. _This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.9 x4 j( |& n/ c0 I% Q% H) W
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Very well, thanks.0 @ t9 O9 D+ u( b$ f+ J
! E1 U$ O6 P( i# v* @' d. p" G+ dA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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8 r; J, ?7 t, x& a/ LPretty good.
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3 o2 r! K/ i n0 k0 KIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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7 d' V$ h) ?3 H7 @1 z6 T7 _( {9 kThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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8 @' I) S3 E! EThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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t. @8 w x/ r* \* s7 [ F$ k7 YPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?4 f9 k5 m- ~2 D. Y. Y$ X4 [
6 w2 P F( M w* a' Y+ qB: I've been better.0 ~( u7 f% \: j, C! J- A
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A: What's wrong?: t4 n4 z6 a0 d, q/ A& @' u7 ~# \
- W! f, v# q2 W' v n2 n* O% N {1 xB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?
4 I% {7 P) s7 C1 E w+ Y5 GThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"' u6 ]; X; Z8 m2 Z4 U/ D; q7 c
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It's going well.
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) X% K# o3 b- p0 \% kThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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0 D9 f: q+ X: B) A' M$ gWhat's up?
- P3 Z% d5 c' @ d0 JThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.' b# h2 G {; w! A5 l; I( A, r, @
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Oh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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( }7 T! M& v& yJust the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.8 R: x& |) ~% Q, Z# Q5 C! A
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way./ f: a* O$ g" _/ w: u% l
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