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$ i6 _- |& _2 D4 LHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters9 `2 Q- O4 H: B: L
$ N$ w. c; g) D7 P& ZThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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3 ]' I q& }8 q4 f4 e3 qYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"" H- Q' @" @' C+ ]$ U: A* @1 E
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0 h+ X' } w; r& C7 o4 g2 yThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.; O6 R' c4 b. H5 W$ q$ M- z
+ K8 Q3 @8 T1 }$ HNot bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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% I* A7 E" U% b# l' ^This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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$ j0 L6 i* z! W" h) d3 D; ^: Z- JVery well, thanks.
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& h+ Q* _, w' zA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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! i7 K8 o3 ^9 K' H" W+ }Pretty good.3 h B. Z9 Y& y# b: s
8 d% B9 ~# D7 a( yIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.7 O! C& W7 ]* b# B1 B0 G- P
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.9 Z/ M. @3 S. m
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I'm hanging in there.
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$ \( [ a/ D1 KThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.
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. E4 t, ^! l. D, v5 `( EPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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' e" H$ Y, P( p7 [A: How are you?/ ^" K' J5 w7 j, s+ c5 n: m
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?% Q; ]4 K2 ^! Q9 x
0 q2 L+ }, v3 RB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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% {8 X% a2 B# B/ K' T3 bHow's it going?
5 z! h3 X0 [0 s& ]* F' WThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. $ o- ]9 r4 j" E
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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6 [: v% B, ^) _0 J8 gWhat's up?
3 m* f2 ]4 F( S- \; KThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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$ g# x8 `5 N4 v: @- SThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.1 O" D8 @4 O2 t
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.* X/ R7 N0 s3 k* y2 c
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Oh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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4 T1 m5 c% h! hJust the same old same old.& Y/ _ n6 B; i2 H% i' g
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it." o4 l" v1 I) a1 d! w. B
. E; N6 f. h0 Q7 oOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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4 l9 W/ p2 `: y2 _You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.- b5 R& z; h& q/ e: y9 T D# N
) i4 M7 W2 }( L p+ BWhat's happening?1 I# N2 d3 Y# m
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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