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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters3 Z% y! b8 N2 p U% @1 n1 B
. ~* {( K! }/ J. `There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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2 }: |$ W1 R+ CYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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7 h; p: w2 S0 c- VHow are you?0 B/ a' v' s: W: ]
Fine.4 X: ^) \3 r& _+ r
2 ^/ k& f7 Y. x& {$ m4 w3 `* K2 kThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.
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7 }, S. r, ]2 O1 j, h2 ?8 `This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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# M' Z! C( O# W$ W& r7 P. p( LFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are." H" W) i' \5 Q3 I
0 r; R. k8 G2 S$ YVery well, thanks.1 s7 ~0 r2 Q- q: |
' m9 c( R( S/ |+ D% YA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.0 N1 G. l$ w3 P( o2 L
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.. N3 [" v s' l b- V3 s
9 F4 G4 B( o. n# M4 m. C6 N0 H' a+ kGreat! How are you doing?
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+ O, ? j* q$ H1 DThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.6 n" j$ r* q2 X4 x% {2 k5 N; {( ^2 L
% R; Q2 b6 H _This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.! @! p8 e2 q y5 r9 v- B
8 y1 r' p! x: X7 T! S3 L% sI've been better.
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4 V& l. j4 `0 a4 s' \# T1 [People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.4 K Z( `$ W$ m
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?& X( |2 O5 S0 Y: G1 ]
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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' E }) z6 C- @It's going well.
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4 ?% k/ Q. F! u& r' G6 GThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. ; S) h9 F+ c0 Y3 i/ F1 I8 m: |
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies: q9 V: T! ^( b4 n1 f4 S6 g8 e) m. N
2 U- h2 Z! ^! o& iNothing much.8 g9 R8 h! v+ u" }1 o' K. q
! f: ?9 l5 W' x0 o4 {This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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$ h: g9 o% U' p* q+ P4 K" ?Not a lot.# q: M* R) J7 b
4 ~2 f; ]/ A* \9 O* j MThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.1 o8 E4 S2 O% r1 q" z6 g4 n# u
. c% O" f5 @9 Y5 L3 r2 Q$ T3 hThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.9 |5 O4 ^+ K- u3 |& {8 ` P
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.( N" J& | k% }6 e' _
! |. G% y2 R/ v! I+ w3 QJust the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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+ {1 b* G/ m, nOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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3 k" r3 n `& F* ZYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?; Q* \' U7 f- U* \: M3 C: T/ K
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way., T9 L4 T3 D6 |
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