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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.; ]/ C7 D2 t- M4 M- U
* w. J# z D2 J9 G- M6 n* qYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?
* I' H! c* q3 o* f0 _Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.. t0 L, M. C/ g! p! r- G
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Not bad.
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7 Q, \7 H5 W. y' M Q! |This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are., k( D% c3 R x! j7 C' I
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Very well, thanks.9 q" L \7 B4 r: x$ r& l1 u
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language., z4 d M1 p l3 d! K' D+ @
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Pretty good.1 _. |3 z* }& X: t+ [# g% ~: P
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?% C4 {4 Z& @" g3 `; H q
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.$ H& a* o* E, n) u- g: u
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I'm hanging in there.# C, K# n8 o5 R) p7 w
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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2 H, c" R/ U; ?' ?1 W% V; @A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.4 b( g* m% j( m' }( I
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: _, c- ^, F1 nB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.3 ~! T, y2 R/ [6 \
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This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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$ {$ J+ }+ E% AHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"( y* \* G/ W/ w! g9 Z- I
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3 s, [% E+ m4 k! ^$ C: `0 oThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 0 h: }! M- A! M! P7 z
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& a' e/ s) f' o, n5 a" V% ]( {This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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- b1 x. ?+ E2 S2 G8 A0 jThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."" d ^) ~6 ], ^( m) ]$ Z8 H
8 v* }/ n# y7 m/ y$ Y z0 _3 }Not a lot., ?) A! J; j2 k5 I
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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% z) s- l+ G* o0 g& JThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.. g6 Y: v5 T+ I1 a7 {7 P( R% u9 J
; J3 ^+ Y& _- [6 e8 v( X3 [* S( N1 xOh, just the usual.9 h/ T8 B" ]/ D9 m8 A. U. y
2 r% Z5 K6 F" u6 f" u' H2 rAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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% |# z/ u |! i' j- G: N2 EJust the same old same old.) ~, G8 I3 Z6 ^8 I
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.) p4 I: a4 n& `& b1 B
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.- D. x+ [* V) v+ O
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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