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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed 9 n1 F/ a( X$ t- ~
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and 5 J, W9 A _: B. i) n. }& w, [
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. 0 Z; { e. Y( @* _8 |! u
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, 4 ]) _4 L/ a# a, Y0 i1 x
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. & d! k1 ^' K! k5 c8 a
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual / H# y# ~! U+ |" U+ Q
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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3 `/ [- s: e+ t4 V. w"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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' t. V O& u2 L9 i r3 o) _' ~"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. 4 T* p% {; r1 {$ P4 V
- b- m$ y5 H. v8 e3 `! l% s% e4 k. a"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 6 @: I7 e1 ~9 @1 j# _4 H
1 |" k; _: W) I2 v5 NIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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! b3 _8 W$ _$ o! _7 W9 YI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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and be thankful for the ones that do.
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6 \7 W! E' [1 }" W3 G& vEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new + x8 V# `* `0 j) _( {* u
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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; J; g3 R; ?3 L% l5 q& HI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
8 m9 `" H$ W6 e: g" g! s 2. Free your mind from worries. 6 M1 ^) F, o- m8 a2 D2 f* _& @
3. Live simply.
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