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What do you decide to put in your bank account?

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鲜花(29) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 17:50 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed 9 n1 F/ a( X$ t- ~
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and 5 J, W9 A  _: B. i) n. }& w, [
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. 0 Z; {  e. Y( @* _8 |! u
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, 4 ]) _4 L/ a# a, Y0 i1 x
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. & d! k1 ^' K! k5 c8 a
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual / H# y# ~! U+ |" U+ Q
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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3 `/ [- s: e+ t4 V. w"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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' t. V  O& u2 L9 i  r3 o) _' ~"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. 4 T* p% {; r1 {$ P4 V

- b- m$ y5 H. v8 e3 `! l% s% e4 k. a"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 6 @: I7 e1 ~9 @1 j# _4 H

1 |" k; _: W) I2 v5 NIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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! b3 _8 W$ _$ o! _7 W9 YI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
) k8 G3 H! k( U5 Vhave with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed 5 a) ^/ O# `$ i/ I
and be thankful for the ones that do.
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6 \7 W! E' [1 }" W3 G& vEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new + x8 V# `* `0 j) _( {* u
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
1 ?; N$ W" _2 V6 G8 L7 r) daccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
; J; g3 R; ?3 L% l5 q& HI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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    1. Free your heart from hatred.
8 m9 `" H$ W6 e: g" g! s    2. Free your mind from worries. 6 M1 ^) F, o- m8 a2 D2 f* _& @
    3. Live simply.
" I& B& V$ ]* Q    4. Give more.
4 `" O. f( t0 q" |) u) F) N3 I    5. Expect less.
鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 19:03 | 显示全部楼层
恩。看样子年轻时候要多玩多享受。不然老了没什么好取的了。
鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 19:23 | 显示全部楼层
so touching! I will just follow the five simple rules to be happy!
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鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
     I would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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I'm very happy each day!
鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 21:32 | 显示全部楼层
That's the reason why he's still alive at 92-years-old.
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发表于 2006-11-16 17:51 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 寒月 于 2006-11-13 16:50 发表
/ t0 q1 v1 s! N2 V8 y5 `A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
2 F/ ~/ @3 e% L8 j( _each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and - R6 ]- X5 k9 N
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally  ...
1 u) S0 |9 e+ L: V    1. Free your heart from hatred. + Q1 n' ~0 K! a1 o8 `+ A
    2. Free your mind from worries. 0 B8 Q" b2 B9 t# [) v8 G
    3. Live simply.
) w) ?, F& |& I    4. Give more. ; p9 k  [) r& B+ |* E
    5. Expect less.
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这是人生真谛。精辟!
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