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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court./ Q* \, M4 F' X6 C$ @! o1 C/ x6 r
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Think this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
6 U+ D; ~. w7 q' NIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. / |# X8 n' b$ o% M. c
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.* N7 ~ t1 n2 I+ y" u! y1 T t" B
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