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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.9 c: N* _/ n$ K- Y* H* \: ^- H8 d! r
Google small court.
6 O/ K! `. h6 N K3 fThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
2 f: H" B8 N: H; ^1 e; `If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. / k- a% E& w$ ~7 e4 W
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.
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