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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 ) r: g6 u2 F, I; ]: k$ ^+ _2 E

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' R  G) ]& H( J今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享; [/ X8 a4 e! }$ m3 _" F& y% l1 H

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Kahlil Gibran
3 M" g' Q' i$ q" g8 ?! q8 eYour children are not your children.# d5 S' j$ G9 U6 [( l' \
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
6 K8 j" m* U/ z9 ^8 ?They come through you but not from you,9 s0 N& Y- r. h9 i/ r
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
! a) d: w/ S2 X* H0 u" ]8 L# X# BYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,
5 R, T+ h( r6 y8 P9 qFor they have their own thoughts.
6 \5 b( C) L# u; p; @$ x0 z$ d' YYou may house their bodies but not their souls,4 P. B& U8 s* g; q
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,/ n/ f, S8 X, O+ A* j
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.6 P0 g$ h2 Q5 r) V2 W- M
You may strive to be like them,
, K' D7 U5 L3 u+ ybut seek not to make them like you.% |; r- D9 _' ^" j
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday., c$ `/ m2 b9 C8 X
You are the bows from which your children: J, g9 ^7 Y' N- T9 n' b4 l5 W. _7 [
as living arrows are sent forth.% D' Z% M7 Q* d1 O" I) V& _
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,! e; Q  D) l# g
and He bends you with His might9 E" w5 \% T! D6 H9 g$ {
that His arrows may go swift and far.
# {4 Z& ~/ P# L# F3 B$ ALet your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;( s, `3 T9 Y7 {# ~' {# M
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
4 l# S9 C8 \0 k$ bso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。- b+ ~, K7 [4 v" J. D0 y: ]% A) t

/ V3 B( n3 D6 ^& [% B  b; {你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
( J/ T3 x8 h/ ?- U他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。& H0 L+ P9 ~6 r7 L: y  D
他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。
% q( o$ a6 w6 |5 \: y- `7 n2 f3 F& B他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。. Y0 P0 z* ~& l
你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,
. y, Q$ b$ [' R因为他们有自己的思想。
- }0 E6 l6 w9 b  ~  Z你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂," d+ t# N/ s, C8 U2 K4 A2 H
因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,, z6 x; h& \) j/ L# m
你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
9 y# G/ B& U+ P% P% s4 d却不要让他们变得和你一样,
4 Q' {/ E3 }, ?$ z# J' b- q3 h! b因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。3 ^: A. E2 e% A
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。- ?( r' V9 x% q2 P1 ]
弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,$ ~$ h1 j" T% O$ ?3 }
它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。
$ T9 f- o: r* c$ D怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,
6 v  u8 Z* S- i/ B因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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