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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
0 G. y, @' g. l5 k6 w. b) x. m兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 ) m% O5 H' X8 v# z
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦
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8 Y1 K) u8 ~+ c5 A% IThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. . K. @0 d, W7 |, B0 Y
2 B/ a p7 W: N% u: CIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.5 p+ Y9 H7 C( q0 H) k/ h/ t
" A8 O5 n6 I" E0 o# T, ?* @2 e RA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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