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When I was a kid, my mom liked to make
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particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that
) a( W+ I8 A) mevening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned
, E% r, A- P3 P* Y9 hbiscuits in front of my dad.. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet% z4 u& N: v% }. y. I
all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day6 f' G$ E0 o/ @* M6 d2 @
was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember
! ?2 r5 @3 W' y; W, xwatching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every9 N3 z8 ^- H6 x/ L+ h
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* G5 [- Z J$ r0 B Y8 OWhen I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my9 C( [/ p+ l: E
mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he4 `$ c% T7 e+ {: D
said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."0 X7 M/ X% V( }3 P4 b5 }
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Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and& l6 g" H6 k& ^* Y/ l" s6 O
she's real tired. And besides - a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"
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. P$ }# s1 ?5 P3 P: \You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect
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2 a8 l8 m5 m) q. F5 ~ Kanniversaries just like everyone else.7 P/ ^1 R4 K: b& ~8 l' F
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; `( i. r! @" O jWhat I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults - and choosing to celebrate
7 n! s& d' L" X8 }each others differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a; p* }" l, S1 Y5 x
healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.& H9 f! L2 y8 E4 f/ n1 q* t8 U i
6 w8 s# E+ {& d dAnd that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker!
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We could extend this to any relationship. In fact,
0 b7 z/ \* G1 F2 punderstanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or% v: I$ U, C9 v# X
parent-child or friendship!( Y3 {7 y* ?5 R' P
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"Don't put the key to your happiness in
' j% ]: y" \/ w: zsomeone else's pocket - keep it in your own." |
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