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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ; X6 y6 ~8 U: d. w/ z
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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5 v& S3 e8 A( ^0 Q# j> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
/ [2 C$ O" P. w. R> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
# g+ F4 F" u. V& o4 C+ P$ C3 e> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then " E/ |3 a9 F/ Y3 r
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
, v$ X2 x$ S# ^ z> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
9 z8 S m$ N, C: T5 H# [) g> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
, Z E. h( J1 `) {> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 2 E7 q! R2 M8 I8 I' v; P; e
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
9 |+ Q l" R" { I- q; [> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."6 ~( ?# _3 V, W8 i7 i* `# z
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + b& E( u- o5 C2 V' d9 p3 J
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty % C/ }- s+ s/ a4 v' b
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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3 _% `# m5 h1 e( c% O+ o( `/ V> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to # P1 j# {9 A3 g% I' [9 p
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
8 ^" P; H4 c6 X: c/ o> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 6 {( F- v3 \- \1 E, v
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 9 X% y i5 ~, D9 _% Y0 x
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and * T$ {9 @; o7 ?& L0 @
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
$ ~! u5 F6 Z5 J" M! E4 }& ~> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the / t7 s! G- Y* S. W6 _
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
- ~! a2 U' [4 i4 x1 }/ t, L% ~> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are n+ I" D5 ?3 d: g, w7 c! g+ c5 n
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ! D8 H! N4 x5 H( U
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 0 h9 w2 U7 L& n! A) j
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
! p+ r, @( x5 a> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 6 p, v* P2 ?8 h1 l0 ]) p/ r
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 8 @+ ?1 q5 z' ]# E+ {
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ?$ }- x: z8 ?
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."- z1 ~. o9 G. U* l/ l
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, $ S( r' B7 K: g+ s
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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$ T" Z& q6 _, E& }4 d3 `2 F> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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