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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。2 y4 ]8 v2 {# F8 }0 T
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
4 _! y$ t7 B# R8 G8 ~* a> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 6 @0 u9 R. B- [& u3 q8 M
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 0 g: s, A% a+ k. v; I
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
7 F9 b: L* {/ {> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and , |7 |# d+ K8 H' I0 }
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
6 N# J: A( e( r> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.3 P) T$ f9 a7 B x1 @3 ]& X6 {7 ?
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
% w* u! p' w, A) c5 S- \+ x G> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between . S! b2 J) i3 N
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They # ~4 P b# B" t5 C1 I( k
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ( V# E" a; ~1 e1 l1 ]
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
_* ~! H! G+ j9 _! j0 r> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."9 f# t$ k( n2 S% D* G ]
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and - _1 k+ v- \" O# `
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ) |# K2 U) H8 O
> space between the sand. The students laughed." ]" c+ a9 X2 `( M3 Q
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1 I8 G' P0 e b9 m; M" L> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
$ P1 ]7 J( m! Y0 \; V> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 1 g& F/ l2 {( w- O! U( \ C
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ) c7 A4 Z1 z* l. \( v
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
# D9 ]* {# L# \- P1 M- M& l1 i> remained, your life would still be full.+ L* f/ h" x8 @- D. s
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% r9 ] c+ L, Q- @> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
+ i. _ ~& U5 c$ `) Z0 j8 Z! }' I> your car.
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9 ~1 N% W# e1 h* _# C+ l, _) T( N> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ! S1 s( ^# X: I2 {
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
* E9 p4 l/ }9 w4 F5 N' _6 ^> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ! m% _0 p- P! T+ u. D, U
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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# P$ D6 ]' \- \" x> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
1 ^2 D2 q8 l" @2 d% [> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
4 R) ?+ E* U m" ], K# W! p> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
) w4 i: u/ \) u/ H8 a8 P% @> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 2 J; ]- L8 m5 H( i
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that , O& c8 u: n/ E0 n, [9 S
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."& {2 t/ W) E4 }* p1 h" q
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6 q9 _$ x* ~- V" b i3 _; y6 [6 E3 R( _> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
3 w x/ j+ ~, V5 y$ g# h> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."* J% j# u3 @, O
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+ [! O+ B: g, x- T, V> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, , @$ s0 N" j* J5 L% g7 W( V4 M# |' j/ M
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."1 v7 B2 g8 e8 V
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5 M/ j5 s L9 o1 D) R" ?" M> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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