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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first& W) g1 V/ \% a3 w$ @+ f- c
names:
- v) w. ^; k2 s# c, {7 }1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
Z: @ p @" h" ~1 w, x# b2) The second second: Don't think about what to4 R0 u1 y) `$ B* v( k0 v+ |' V
say—listen for the name.6 T3 j/ }- k) E
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud." c" ]; D) p3 e( [" z. S
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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* V8 d5 Z J$ ?+ x# k+ A' W5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
! U1 @, u, C5 u) Z/ Y4 s/ W iend of the conversation., y5 \9 z1 P; }" E/ F1 i
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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