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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to2 X9 L& Y! I2 q/ S8 X9 T2 T4 S
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear5 h c0 D* r) W1 r, s6 c- N4 y
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what$ [0 t) W, v: t/ r+ U
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
3 }% @! `: l5 ^! h! |# u& wthink of you.
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: @; c+ P* G& a4 C: kUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first! b# G' q; Y; ~( B
names:
6 V; t- o' V! n' ?- g3 C# a4 M3 \+ n1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
5 m$ h$ {( n, Y! {$ f2) The second second: Don't think about what to
2 j; {# N1 c6 E! E/ usay—listen for the name.1 J8 ~% w* ^! }' L' C6 r6 D4 d
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
+ u! q' H1 I7 c0 m% h j4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
$ g: }2 O. B# } |: P1 T6 v. `; qwith the same name.
$ @6 B5 Y3 f+ J6 E& n7 E; g3 W5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
, B, | O; u; s! K' |& J/ b: [6 Kend of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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