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Five Seconds to Success in remembering people's names

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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what' F5 x% K, t. S& v; j# n8 J- k& M5 C
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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+ K% |2 o# ]. u# i' F- e3 x% w, pUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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: @+ L/ \) R# c! T- _' y1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
; J9 u* F: ~& z+ C' F4 M7 D8 y4 k; H2) The second second: Don't think about what to
9 G, g5 f" j5 a9 h, ~say—listen for the name.
. w+ R, V- C- W* Z$ f3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.( r0 z" u3 O/ J) F! r
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>
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