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~SOMETIMES~3 F# m9 G0 U2 ~1 l& j( q
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Sometimes people come into your life$ F- H& S5 l: y) r2 H
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
9 K$ }! K# P; S; @9 o0 \9 sto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
1 M. ]8 c+ e3 U0 ?or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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! P, Y( T, d7 l; `" [9 jYou never know who these people may be, R, r$ r, s3 K/ z& G, R% d
but when you lock eyes with them,& K3 ^0 q. @' ^' D. _ {. U8 x
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
, R( S1 N/ X; l( v/ T3 @2 OThey are there for the reason you need them to be.* ]# U' J+ }8 ]) d; ?) v. }
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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0 |$ c& A, s# o' M; s lThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
7 }# G' I! ]& Q) Q& fSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
0 w$ b6 o; r" |( G9 YSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.; \" T! I; B% Z9 J
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
" ~; a1 `- M4 o( B$ `our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
# L$ o: t! y5 g3 I6 nThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
, {5 k2 D4 a/ J/ Z/ lAnd now it is time for you to move on.; M$ K$ U T) v( t! h ^8 d1 h- c) a
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7 {4 U. J; B2 ?7 |Then people come into your life for a REASON& i* Y$ W$ ?" p4 g. I
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.0 J) @ {# w# f/ T. L; z
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.( k# Y. r6 g% z
They may teach you something you have never done.
6 H6 O( I8 T8 VThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.9 E2 V* N9 |4 }% q, K7 h
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦2 @. O6 c* |2 K3 ` ^5 J: ^) x1 o
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
" F# n8 K# U1 X+ [9 y- G( KYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,& V3 l6 g5 ]9 j3 B' e# s" t
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.5 Z$ S9 d k: T
Everything happens for a reason.
- @1 v/ I4 E( K7 M: i1 X) z# s4 rNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ Y5 p; v$ L5 p* f: k
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,0 Y0 p3 ?4 f0 s. _5 [3 r
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.6 j3 @0 s a; A! i
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$ v0 K: D3 O& E* A) j4 v2 VIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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9 \: M8 P- {6 T) \If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
6 A n% g/ q0 Sfor they have helped you learn about trust
. s8 o) E1 B3 c# f' X2 gand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.$ `: K2 Z% o" ~6 l0 E
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,1 ?0 X2 U9 N. s* h! g
Try to love them back unconditionally,' W, R! k& _8 M# a9 R: Q1 o+ u
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
0 t. z% j+ W5 Z4 v) a/ ?5 othey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.; N( q9 _0 } z, m6 E
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
/ n- o% K2 b! t( gA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
3 U" W/ S. z: [and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."1 u6 L' _0 F5 x6 `( A; \
God's grace is as a healing hand.# g9 j8 X( F m$ H! }/ J) r
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,1 \- c; |" O6 {- x" a1 g4 O
the warm memories and love for those we have lost- g, a1 V' z9 q8 X0 y! V. V
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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