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 Sometimes people come into your life
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 to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,+ J6 D: J7 E( z9 f" [# w
 or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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 but when you lock eyes with them,4 n3 f( u# o1 X7 L
 you know at that very moment,
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 They may seem like a godsend, and they are!! O2 Q. z( B* ^8 k4 I9 p
 They are there for the reason you need them to be.
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 The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
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 What we must realize is that our need has been met,7 Z4 F2 `4 Y9 s
 our desire fulfilled, their work is done.( X( t7 y* {% p7 [4 t& Y& @
 The prayer you sent up has been answered.& c+ ^* j* u' e. W/ s+ T/ @) {
 And now it is time for you to move on.
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 Then people come into your life for a REASON
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 They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh., j+ p( z; G* L4 n
 They may teach you something you have never done.5 f- _2 z2 o; o
 They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
 5 @! o8 F# w# a2 M+ fBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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 8 s. `6 Q8 m( @/ }  \( f% ~; T! F' w4 fLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:; \5 p  Y0 q- o4 Y
 Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
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 Everything happens for a reason.
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 Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
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 If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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 for they have helped you learn about trust
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 Try to love them back unconditionally,
 : l5 Q) g7 v" K1 s: Nnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
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 The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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 and a time to every purpose under the sun.
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 the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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