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~SOMETIMES~
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: h- T/ Q m& N1 {! [ rSometimes people come into your life
6 F L0 L F+ O) r6 c, b+ D* w4 a9 Gyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
) s; W( t9 I; n0 @! n% }& Vto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
# w1 V B. \1 x, l' E5 X6 X, S# j) uor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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, Y6 _4 Y1 ~, s' h3 pYou never know who these people may be
' [2 r" ~+ A2 r% c5 o/ H1 r0 @5 ]but when you lock eyes with them,
* ~: ~7 o7 P4 B8 Z; [) D8 z) `you know at that very moment,
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) c9 l( z* i1 n4 BThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
# c6 X& y* p/ A8 h! H# o/ F+ dThey are there for the reason you need them to be.% i; a4 ^7 J, h4 {* {2 O
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,! M1 S' {1 i) S8 t" w" f
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
$ T' j& m1 K' r/ @Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.+ \! h9 i8 c3 T) j( w9 {
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.0 [0 p0 n9 j& y9 [( ]
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.: F5 U. r, T/ O, F" o; w( ?0 ^
And now it is time for you to move on.% W0 }) u3 U y, s) d
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+ D; T) i+ ]! d' A2 z1 yThen people come into your life for a REASON
: y# N ]% L& b+ n* p( j8 r2 }6 }+ @Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
3 Y5 s* c- Y! q- c: }They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.& K" M. z. o& {3 R7 c: n9 I5 V
They may teach you something you have never done.
v! F1 F4 i; y# T6 |7 iThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
4 ~9 Q7 y$ E4 vBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
( b6 Y# h6 k1 c% ~Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,5 _+ P4 I, @) |: f o6 ^
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
" l- P$ n# R! M( PEverything happens for a reason.
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Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,6 Z" X7 _: j6 G8 m% N |! y
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful, v. Z6 U* o3 V* w& l/ s
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,& U# O' i/ O9 d; @" i
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,/ e: Y$ H7 b9 B( R
for they have helped you learn about trust
: r3 a, K- R% o$ Sand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
* ^- C( ^0 b$ |6 `! D' X: WIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,7 y1 [/ b u; L6 X) E7 R$ z0 r
Try to love them back unconditionally,
1 B" S x: e) X+ `* K; @" Jnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
; r& M# [) ^0 Z3 w* u0 w( Gthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,! q. x" A( K! Z0 s3 a( C
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A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
# c4 s$ Q' h* C9 Z; G# A/ x! ?1 eand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
! \' d3 | Z7 C1 g/ G$ ?! w6 dGod's grace is as a healing hand.9 b: u5 I4 ~# _; v
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
- z+ e+ D. B. R4 }% {% Xthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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