Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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* ~8 O. n8 @  [' s3 h9 r. VWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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. g  x* c/ N- E5 f" ^8 J: x- ?1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

3 u0 E- A5 V' ]; f" u' k2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

+ U0 T3 V1 {! h# E3.        Stay one step ahead
! h6 {. R% p( G/ m0 F1 g5 v. ~Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
3 [4 y* c* E# j- pFrom no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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