Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

7 H. j- g+ k- {% q- Z6 @While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

! `. M: J# o7 o  f5 |1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
3 x+ }' ?" x1 H! q$ R1 aTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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3 G9 ?% C: e5 l7 i& r2.        Speak up when she’s good
; B% ]' H/ R; J6 t. ]: f/ X) b6 Q3 Z& aIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

. d: e+ ~/ I. {6 G3.        Stay one step ahead
8 \. O  T6 w& w7 [4 k4 YLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
2 q- r; {6 A# y  `8 t! _0 D+ @& DFrom no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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2 L; I+ w5 X* J: L1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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