Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

4 m6 L& X% b: {5 t! ?( d3 r* _While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
; I. ]. q, x/ vIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

3.        Stay one step ahead
2 L; N% |$ K( K* {- b, m6 gLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
0 K0 z9 L/ U0 D- J5 A* i& x8 cFrom no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

, b. j) ~) f" W0 g6 j1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
7 C/ S6 E. L/ X2 W, T! d2 n7 Q# uTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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