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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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/ _% {% `( |& }) S8 K' CThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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. U' |5 B0 T* H1 _; C  o8 k# {bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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$ N0 m7 S6 G6 fof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that * H, D' P6 @. u8 g& g2 M9 n" u+ {

8 x8 t7 I3 w: o9 d% {" m: H3 v% Ma child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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of people he/she hates.
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with 1 M, M2 r5 t) w5 ?) n; T: n7 P2 d

$ X2 b& O, c1 d' n' Y' Kthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 6 `4 f: h2 E( u6 \$ ?" Q% t) l

2 k, Z/ ?6 D! N! Y3 while some up to 5 potatoes. ' H2 x# D+ r1 s

5 \( X' x" I* ?: x  VThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes ! F7 H' \: ~! {9 O! t

; W& ]/ v& V. y. @6 Y4 C7 C' Nin the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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6 {4 L: j, k$ Q$ c8 d4 f0 [due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, 2 A1 q0 Y  W, L; s6 }

: ~: {. G, X! ?those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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% p) O& S. B  o+ @8 ?week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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/ {8 B- h! u) t1 @- FThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes : J2 k; j) Y. l/ A- @+ [# P- D

; a( F- Q/ Y% ]1 |5 F. Nwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and ) n, ~# e( f, K/ P' b9 ?

6 `5 k3 y7 [# S, v4 i: q& Sstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry 4 r' N& m: a+ N' v/ F5 T
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred $ R" O: Q/ l! Z  E6 F

& z  J! {: D1 m9 S) h' mwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever 7 E# P: a2 Y: z; R+ B1 h

0 k- _6 h9 x3 qyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just # y- L2 j, \) a7 u6 I

! E9 w8 V8 d# x6 s# j; c( p1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred & m/ p7 B% ~0 O1 z$ [, y

3 ^# w2 ~; L, `. t) K2 G- |/ c; Sin your heart for your lifetime???"
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1 n7 Y. B/ K8 U; U1 w% u" ]/ B"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;   D3 g5 e& h7 S) [. o; {1 y8 b

& x4 W0 k7 S% ]1 F4 |, i& N3 C0 Wit is something you do for yourself.
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. q  l% m# t0 V0 v; z" e# e+ a" O+ \Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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