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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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3 o6 d3 H% F, ]6 g- {8 D1 ~The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic   p1 \& _- x$ v" \9 M5 ^: Z

) t: o2 U3 m# f: qbag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name 3 B* Z- G0 g2 J
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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of people he/she hates. ; m8 z& n1 k% B0 y" }4 }  G+ ^8 }

  |% Q3 B8 @! A" c9 aSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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4 F' c9 o, l4 y& [8 I5 P  Kthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some # j# Y0 q/ l& p) f, E+ q7 a

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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes 9 i7 L+ E! i/ w. [' `) h/ B9 [
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. ( U; x1 A9 m- Y% w+ l
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain 2 C+ `2 U% ~# p" U- Y! s% C3 H* n
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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* _* @3 Z1 `+ b  sthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 ! \& e6 W8 ~5 F  `! L6 j1 S

; g' t% r! N# m  U3 cweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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9 M0 t1 |+ ]6 O$ f( j2 ~$ v( ]) w7 d% pwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through : W) q5 a) z0 \* b, G0 M% k
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. # R+ h; M, ?' N/ J6 C
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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. K- v$ H8 z) f9 lThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry 6 R3 j, K6 i5 ^* G, f/ i/ c
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred ) j  \, s  r9 z7 X: q  G3 x$ W
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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/ \5 E) b- F6 ~0 Q' ~7 {! byou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 5 X, G% F+ E! }, K; E# O

) E9 T9 R, x0 s* V5 u* p3 R; e; ]1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred + R& |) ]: S' C* l2 \

6 ^1 e8 h4 r5 j* g1 Din your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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it is something you do for yourself. # l7 H$ y4 z4 t( N+ Q) R+ {8 G
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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