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THE STENCH OF HATRED - `) s- r8 B- p; j: y. `
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( g5 S1 t$ s2 {) u( |' \A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic 8 l s ]& B1 V: a3 I7 {
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name & S) v* |8 m! S8 M
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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2 ]( k! v( L1 ^9 _5 B7 i6 }of people he/she hates. ) y( T& C b$ ?" v, v
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some : m( z0 l# |/ r$ {! f% ^ ?& x1 F
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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( ?; ^; E1 _% P, A8 T* Rin the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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0 K4 X' ~! }6 S$ _Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, |4 @& B+ i- s0 T' U Q
% |* `3 F/ e# W$ U( S% M" hthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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1 T" p4 Q. \, v4 d+ fweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. 3 w5 o+ X) d) R& `* |! y
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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% Y" ?/ K4 N! r4 \- wstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. m, A+ o+ H5 g5 k% Q) W1 T
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. 9 K. v1 w6 A" J2 o4 l
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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6 y3 E" ?! X8 P/ e1 t8 xyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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# s6 v6 ~! W7 x+ Ayou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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( o9 s+ S# z9 b( J1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred ) ~/ Z8 s2 B! |% b7 c& i: _- ~
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in your heart for your lifetime???" 4 Y8 D: t |; K. i
: ?, c9 a8 K- Y4 A, U" R% T"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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it is something you do for yourself. 9 s1 U# ]# y9 T3 X
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness" |
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