买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. , K* p8 k, A6 E5 ]1 e5 _/ J& }$ o( H. v' R3 f5 O
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