好心提醒同事工作中的一个小问题,他的回答是:这有什么,就算错了,也不至于被开除; `+ [# v" f2 r; ?
当时想回应:算我多事, ' L; C1 t8 L T. Y* I可不会说。 B' y7 o( u4 W
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can anyone pls help me with this? & d; W8 E3 e9 z8 B3 Z7 }- X7 L/ B9 T/ ^6 d' `
and btw, the wechat code in other topic is expired, can anyone provide me another one pls?2 I0 d1 F! H& |' {9 N, g( W. ^9 E
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thx.
can't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ. 9 d1 z( C7 P! c" y! Sreally prefer wechat, so whenever I have an english question, ask and get help instantly ( wish): @& k6 p5 D" |1 ^6 G( ]
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thank u for all response, still looking for more specific answer.
永远的末班车 发表于 2016-2-2 12:51* M7 O6 ?; L$ d3 Z; _% _$ m
can't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ. * }" ^4 S) E5 `; A5 xreally prefer wechat, so whenever I ...
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在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。所以你的同事才会变得defensive。即使上级对下级也都是很客气的。当然如果别人侵犯你了,那要另当别论。
newelec 发表于 2016-2-2 14:03" y6 W5 h0 u U. F. ?! ~
在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。 ...
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我不明白为什么会有这种观点,如果是我,感激还不及呢,不说今后不再犯同样的错,何况我之所以指出他的错,是因为这事件直接联系到Manager.& A" [; b) i+ x% O8 I5 a9 m, d1 Y) D
我还以为他会感谢我,可能他正是有这种观念,所以才那样回答我。1 k& F# Z* }9 x. w7 i
Well,不认为每个人都会feel being offended, ; Z3 Z+ d# F6 [+ g
只是通过沟通熟悉每个人的风格吧。