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& A9 x3 d8 K" x/ r3 k9 vHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters2 e5 L) h6 G4 X7 y6 J& l3 E
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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: k' M! n1 l: ]* n- `6 g1 k0 C2 EYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"/ b$ |* r" f7 x
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How are you?- D1 U9 ]- G% Y% ]9 e( u7 B) W1 T
Fine.
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W) D! L( l! ]! j% f0 BThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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7 |- \6 J+ Q/ y* t* J% UNot bad.
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' ^" Y4 u7 s+ f# A& JThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.1 ?- C0 X T5 x4 F9 J+ Y
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Very well, thanks.2 D- w% N6 z& n
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.+ |- Y4 k7 A' T! ~+ F
, R% t2 n3 Y$ Y' u/ [Great! How are you doing?
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/ V5 F3 }$ d; H9 R; _" Y! VThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.8 W+ `2 }4 d( F4 a( P; f+ p& ]
$ v+ S* ], H% L6 o* hThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.* z0 ^2 }- I8 _$ v9 p5 V# Y: i; E
( F; J2 _5 y9 F( I% M' E% o( `4 rI've been better.5 f* {6 J1 X& E9 U; v$ e7 [
+ ~1 c1 B: I& @# F7 z0 X6 a8 aPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:6 {5 k u% H& l6 x' v" w
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?; ]( A" p/ z2 `1 `: a
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.' ?$ P+ ]9 `. e7 D0 n: S
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How's it going?% ]& b! Y! q) Q1 e0 `8 j- q
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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$ X M$ f) Y/ UThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. . A- `' p% ]9 ?7 d
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What's up?
2 m4 M7 a1 g& d) yThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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- l! f& V5 P; S. l6 U$ Z( {Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."" H4 C7 P% L% Q: d! n
$ g+ t* h8 e1 T4 v/ }Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.7 O! A. p/ h$ y3 p5 R3 Z
) M6 q7 Q, R( W( XNothing.
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3 N, C* r! g6 {! mThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.8 J/ ?. C3 I2 h8 {* c
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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% Q$ b9 M* X: w" T: SJust the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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* w) v/ d8 Y4 W8 s1 F P) cOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!5 X* p; i7 [) Q. ]" k$ B
( F1 o8 [; h7 @: YYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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& v- M( {1 X2 UWhat's happening?
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