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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss./ H. s' z& L% ` c j# m
, j I# O7 Q9 ^3 dYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"5 @% _2 M1 o$ s& u9 x& I: {- w
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.% d1 u0 p3 F& L
! M) a& ?0 s$ X* X- `. B% pNot bad.; K' u6 y0 G$ _
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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+ a" Q. {3 p, d! ~Fine, thanks.* C7 R% k: K4 V1 r6 ~
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.1 G4 J5 I9 s, i& `: E6 h! e% H( J! f
) [$ n: X4 E1 S' i/ @7 w1 Q4 ^5 iVery well, thanks., z! o; {& g$ m) A
; z, G8 e8 o7 R2 t& \$ I% k$ z2 NA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.5 [/ s% c+ h; a) f/ `2 U
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Pretty good.: `; ?7 ?6 F7 z8 Y) v
9 J8 x8 P9 V* r" [If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.3 E7 p4 t9 [5 g. }+ y
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.; m; R: D. v. m2 T0 V
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I'm hanging in there.! i& Y q. M H( v
4 d O2 u2 {" s/ u8 Q2 j: V' wThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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4 h+ T+ s0 d/ T4 ^0 [. { Z+ J9 ^I've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?8 `+ y2 t- w; W; Q9 q# p; ~
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?5 H4 |! K4 g0 |( V: c' R
5 N) Q* e+ y' m. h& K- H9 w/ Z" lB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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6 z7 j A2 U q9 m( @2 t7 NHow's it going?6 p( [+ t! E- _% {8 D; L H& M
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.) {- C1 ?5 @+ c
- F, r- d3 T1 ~0 t( JHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"( [9 B1 k' @8 L( z8 F6 O* F
# p2 X, s/ W. t( \It's going well.
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: A# k2 Z! _& ~! W5 T, [ v& s3 n; `This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. ) k+ v" I; ?- x7 @1 w
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What's up?
0 C: a6 a* G/ pThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:, `& S& ?. O+ u( y9 v
4 r! P$ q9 i5 k% j) p# P; S. hNothing much.
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1 ^+ T% N+ L# O" X" kThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation.": I+ B: o1 {( z/ `& m$ z6 C/ u- i5 |. O
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Not a lot.: k& e3 t+ `% F6 n
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.7 U" J8 W( L* n
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. v2 t6 m7 F9 K9 Q. O5 [This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.: _! z+ u! A7 {
( ?+ t7 R5 B8 L2 d" M: QAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!8 o3 n9 a" ^' h, i6 {
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.! f4 \1 I3 D& D, J
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What's happening?
" H& P( P% ]* u. v: Q; {- W! E+ sThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.. o. @; w; n0 @3 t" P4 z
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