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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters3 ~8 B3 N/ X2 {1 k
8 X" J2 U& ]+ G* ?8 J f$ \( d3 R4 UThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.1 U q. r3 v& A2 k
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.
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" V9 B8 C% g" b7 zThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation. e( {3 q1 O, ?. D
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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: g% _& H* ~8 z6 f- CFine, thanks.
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. f! b/ N, O) _- d* H& T3 Z& W% r( oThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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* R B1 T% T2 S% K5 EA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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4 O2 g! x2 j k6 o% d# [4 N3 i" J4 dIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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) v, q# T; ~( o1 JGreat! How are you doing?* t' J2 z3 N; A. B9 Z
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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, G, I: D" G" Q9 eI'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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0 u. ]! b; p$ i BPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?% p* U M' j* O2 P% W- f" v% H
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?
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9 _, {7 D0 e! i( {- L8 DB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.( X, x! n# E n- t v1 u
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How's it going?
, [7 A( S0 Y5 D/ T/ y, r# F- bThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.! X9 K: x. [4 _( p
- M0 K6 l* \" a3 O% A# {Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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$ D4 B) Q3 s5 L8 ?It's going well. 3 Y- o! }' H: n. e9 T
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. . O+ |% N0 X6 V' l) _! e
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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( G. R) V f/ I- n# WNothing much.* P! S2 {/ |7 {
, o; d$ t) h+ U! Y0 N. P5 A& D" L* SThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."! M3 j" M" i! |) H
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& u, S3 `/ ~% q$ m% V1 QThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.! @& H! o+ b8 z/ f- Q4 _
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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$ c1 s7 k9 X0 sOh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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# q+ K/ V2 `' b# p5 }0 y& L. V/ ?Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!/ V6 P( |, ]9 P& b- ]& c/ z$ V
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately." p; F! h# ?5 ^$ {( w: ^
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What's happening?* p1 ~, Y; s" T* V2 ?/ Q
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.6 p% C, K3 n+ }0 a
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