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# \4 J- @! x( u) K0 e9 IHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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' G2 h) D0 n. z3 W9 U6 IThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.% |3 k& r7 d; T/ w
- B* n4 E" t7 |3 J- tYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?
( q; ~* H2 t2 yFine.
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+ M0 E# S H9 j5 gThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.* K: G) ^# L: v6 j2 \4 e
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Not bad.6 }/ Q- y' s7 h, C9 [+ I- c
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine"./ K# ~ k7 M7 n4 w5 @0 }1 v
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Fine, thanks.
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3 i( ]! q8 D- @3 pThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.5 c6 c# S, }" i9 O6 ]
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.; q7 r( s7 p4 k; K, w2 ~) ^5 _
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Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.7 t5 \+ h1 |8 ]! i
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Great! How are you doing?' I1 Y1 Z r) X9 d
4 Z" C* P6 ?! C0 LThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.! I& }( z% M2 n) s- j
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.+ A w: R! u6 ?" s% T
3 t7 Q" C8 C- e7 j! p3 N- E- b" PPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?$ v- Q. Z9 D# y! v( t; W9 |, b
5 {) L8 X P! \2 t& d K4 D7 QB: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?; q! r, E3 L: i: U
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?" L% M3 k( M1 \( @5 c0 c9 f3 v: m
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well. T& t4 W5 l/ U9 c0 z) z# b
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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5 R1 D4 U, e( C, SIt's going well. / a1 \& I2 S1 {* {( f
/ ]7 j) K$ o7 T9 }; ^This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. : X8 H8 D* p' B) S3 j0 `
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What's up?
; ~* c( t1 V) D( b/ h) aThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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8 [; _' {4 X0 }* x( PNothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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# ?, V. w( G- {& }Not a lot.8 _& x' {0 F2 A ?1 |0 {
; U1 J1 b2 O" d. L2 a, GThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common. `6 }1 o, S9 T' k ?3 g+ T8 l+ |
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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4 A7 h+ [" B5 F, e4 e. ^' H: `- Y: UOh, just the usual.
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9 o# e( Z" F/ QAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.1 K F9 K {! l1 A' z. N3 A/ U
) v0 V; d& X% b' zThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!: }1 s2 ]4 I) a' f) @4 [( K
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.: U# y- e0 i+ M
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What's happening?
+ l$ x1 n; P" x ^$ Z1 V6 R5 WThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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