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What do you decide to put in your bank account?

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鲜花(29) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 17:50 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
老杨团队,追求完美;客户至上,服务到位!
A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed $ |% l( l% B: w: D. [& g
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and / b1 Z7 Z* T+ y' e; E
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a ! o! a, ~5 |* z+ p& m; A3 X5 s# ]
nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
0 b* A7 C* l3 Y0 R  F* D6 RAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
/ U& K* d5 J* {, Nhe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. 1 V2 ?# A7 C/ u: t
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
, T, l9 H/ G$ J! I1 @8 ~# J; D- f; ]description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
/ I0 y" a- S) M$ z. p' k3 ?. |/ ihung on his window. , H" @, d3 ?% G# E; _" u' P

( X9 U& a1 m7 i  x+ [% T"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having 4 Z! j0 v6 e0 [( W; O  E/ C
just been presented with a new puppy.
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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6 p- O+ f* j  g/ X"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. , {( u" k1 O  F# G( B- \
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 8 v* r# [# z( R& f
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
" d! O; G  U( L9 UI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." - U# s2 k6 J1 F
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. ! ]; O5 G9 C  A4 m) V- M( k
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I $ m  o+ |- D" Y8 ?0 o3 p- ?
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed 2 m: h1 P3 H0 A$ O9 E" E9 |0 A: [
and be thankful for the ones that do. ' Z, I  s5 J8 p6 z# |# V
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new 1 w( @* [6 M( {8 |! A/ ^( }
day and all the happy memories I've stored away. ' e/ a( F0 \( j6 r- K
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Just for this time in my life. / j) f" X; M2 d/ k5 b9 o
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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7 O1 W5 ^9 X$ O0 `, ], MSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank 3 X( y8 Z* ^) A2 T& B' K
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. % q, L9 {( F7 Q& M$ q' ~) p! J& U
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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    1. Free your heart from hatred.   w0 u4 ^2 H* H5 ], x; Q( n/ [
    2. Free your mind from worries. ( D) t  o- a9 @4 `( d
    3. Live simply.
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    5. Expect less.
鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 19:03 | 显示全部楼层
恩。看样子年轻时候要多玩多享受。不然老了没什么好取的了。
鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 19:23 | 显示全部楼层
so touching! I will just follow the five simple rules to be happy!
鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
     I would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank 5 ?( G6 ]! G) Z2 L0 M
account of memories!  no hatred; no worries;  Live simply; Give more; Expect less!!
/ r" w$ [, u' f/ rI'm very happy each day!
鲜花(0) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2006-11-13 21:32 | 显示全部楼层
That's the reason why he's still alive at 92-years-old.
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发表于 2006-11-16 17:51 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 寒月 于 2006-11-13 16:50 发表# J. e5 e# Y+ j$ z! O
A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
5 ~/ C5 _' u% T1 i4 b/ z$ u/ seach morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
, ]  x- H4 @' M* N8 }shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally  ...
& x7 K+ B% \) y5 V# d. C    1. Free your heart from hatred.
7 [/ k- v2 x/ l6 t" A  a    2. Free your mind from worries. : |. M0 b% m7 p
    3. Live simply.
: f* e$ r8 ^% \4 {) R    4. Give more. # L, H% k, [) U) F) @8 O/ k
    5. Expect less.
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这是人生真谛。精辟!
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