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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed ! ?( `7 _- z$ [5 Y% X# F
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
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; X8 k9 X6 n+ m! ~8 Snursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. - n; Z% X- u7 q8 p
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
8 `# K! s9 k. j5 Qhe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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/ b0 ? |8 J2 w6 V1 y4 p7 LAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
4 g5 o, L) X% P0 Qdescription of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. 6 ?% o0 ?( }% Q
4 T& J* g/ j: R7 ~% m, [( DI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I / z) e: b, `. z0 I5 V% C# v
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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7 X; i& Y1 u* o. k/ d9 d1 sEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
( o- \( v! T/ ~- o: \! r# D: ?day and all the happy memories I've stored away. * M i2 T3 A; N/ b6 T' S
8 {+ O* ]# B8 y! s1 fJust for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
3 M$ P& e D7 \. R. W$ oaccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
& A8 a5 ]. l1 F! k, jI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
; @* _& Q2 O# k8 p& R; l 2. Free your mind from worries. $ M3 W* N% c" F- y, k
3. Live simply. 8 _* [" V7 E3 R1 U7 c0 m
4. Give more.
, N6 V" P9 [; c3 h$ c' P 5. Expect less. |
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