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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
/ a5 |3 o. ?0 B. zAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
4 L/ p5 i$ v0 v6 X The smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. 2 _0 o2 r2 j! Z' Y# m
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual ) [, f8 X" a) E4 D9 O) L/ `$ }, X
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been 2 U3 A! F9 F0 i
hung on his window.
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$ `8 m1 @/ x/ E0 u$ s6 X"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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" Q2 d" P0 e5 p' E. }"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. 7 F) i- e$ ^" I4 x
, N, R% }( J# @4 o; G, H9 Y"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
: U8 E8 P+ _ W+ jroom or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how 1 X! Z( P3 R2 G8 t. L. o
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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- q: F- r; P/ H; {It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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; ^9 _8 c7 r1 h3 uI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I 2 Q& e- |; e) j9 [+ t' _
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
5 s/ i, E/ B9 a0 M: B5 Gand be thankful for the ones that do. & e5 Q7 l! b7 D1 e6 w& M; ?
/ M ]$ I5 d2 w$ |3 WEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
- W2 `4 K$ R D% N$ x0 A1 cday and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life. 6 I L: b. ]/ N5 I
: R1 b% Z; d3 ]. vOld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. " D- t- `4 T7 I1 @0 Y* h
$ g5 [) v# ^6 C- eSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
: @9 C! ]4 F! |5 M8 [: I" ^account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. 6 u2 L1 J- ` z2 @6 s
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 8 O; b: i2 F) Q
; b; B& y( } ]. `, i7 v 1. Free your heart from hatred. ( U$ h1 @' z, |* b& ~
2. Free your mind from worries.
4 f8 i( _$ Z m4 R 3. Live simply. - Q1 C5 R% _: o+ U6 k
4. Give more.
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