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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.7 \5 ?3 c! ^ W
Google small court.
4 E; B+ h' M- ]4 \Think this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. # r* v% V7 r0 w- S2 X1 v5 a
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do.
/ l9 S+ W' X, a! z6 F0 h1 G5 a" SAs the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.( P$ `7 @4 K. z$ r8 h
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