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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.
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Think this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
* O$ p h# ?, V& ^1 {7 mIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. 7 g& n+ A" ?2 d. s- p$ |
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.$ s; \5 c% I! W! Q0 H& B: H$ D
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