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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 , |& H. _( W, o! {

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4 t  l( D- B0 e5 Z2 }2 e" H& o" H今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享" m: R0 o0 o% E0 _
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On Children
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Your children are not your children.+ ]1 S3 ?7 ~' D" k6 V) f
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.5 [( o  O% Q7 N7 g; a/ X+ |9 H
They come through you but not from you,% _8 L3 p0 n) ?6 X6 I
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
0 m9 I! d/ L$ _8 G1 ]8 U2 V4 E# AYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,6 E+ ?& H# z5 z- X9 N
For they have their own thoughts.
+ l/ L* V# m/ `, V7 A: IYou may house their bodies but not their souls,
+ V% a4 z% x, p1 p7 rFor their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,9 l* m% B% O( o$ d/ N
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.# `1 e5 v) U# ^) b" _' N  c
You may strive to be like them,
# s8 X1 r& k5 _4 ^, F& cbut seek not to make them like you.- w" J- K9 Q6 s( ?  R
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
- Q; M; e/ ]% }: t% GYou are the bows from which your children" y5 `- N$ D4 w# g' l7 W8 U
as living arrows are sent forth.* `0 N: L2 }. ]# V
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,4 }$ W9 A/ k- Z, n6 a
and He bends you with His might5 y# J$ E1 i2 u) j& x
that His arrows may go swift and far.+ S+ ], W2 }! e6 G7 S
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
. G9 I3 O( J, b& f) LFor even as He loves the arrow that flies,( l/ a3 v+ z+ R. u, O: w  v
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。
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& s8 o! X2 Q, o3 [- S你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
3 k$ Z/ i6 b7 y他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。
2 _$ ^7 F4 x: H9 T8 a他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。0 C6 E8 y" z* w
他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。& w% ~) I- I/ n6 }0 L
你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,* p+ [9 b2 @: D6 }/ P
因为他们有自己的思想。
% `+ J2 p3 O2 w你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,# P- F$ e- G: T6 V5 v/ v5 e9 Y
因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
4 y5 _6 H# _5 ~你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
, L6 e5 v) \  s4 g却不要让他们变得和你一样,& o) A4 p4 `2 _
因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。! c; T" H0 U9 f3 d8 x8 ]4 I% X
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
" _$ N* ^7 H3 b) n( d弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,0 N5 g5 g4 @: @4 e- m
它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。
% c8 ~4 X8 V( y- ~) S# s8 ^/ I1 v怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,
: _( {3 ^6 s7 [7 n$ ]/ R# i+ ]6 Q因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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