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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 ! N; ^: F# \" h$ k$ A
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 ( y" Y, S3 j7 K" p1 e+ s& i
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 % S q4 Q0 H: [$ g% _( [
2 m. {! z8 N3 F+ @/ i, t: z( Y; [There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. ) Y! t3 c8 D; k* N7 u$ x
: @+ a0 @/ Z; ]( d; vIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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0 F$ W6 C. n6 K, `# b+ AA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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