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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 9 B& W! ]. T# _% c0 v2 f0 y
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 ; Z% q. F' n$ G, U+ |( W' i* R
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦
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3 b; s* Z7 F6 }! yThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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% S3 m# k5 {9 m) e+ LIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.) i; ?' v1 ~+ |5 \9 L# Y ?
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A reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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