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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
4 U/ s' r3 o% p7 v; i6 U; B7 }兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 1 }% B1 P7 ]' x5 D/ ]1 H
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦
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, k0 s O7 `' O) x0 {There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. 0 u$ r) c& g/ P- o% h! G
, [% f+ e) w1 Q: D! ~In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.( b, \2 ]5 M/ S; t" T( p/ y- P0 c& Q; k
3 a1 m: u, B. z0 n; z& MA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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