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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to* n9 n* q' o2 ?& X+ A8 \0 b3 M, N U
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear7 [, Y+ ?+ F7 h
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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think of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.7 t: Y, ~: M" o! b. K. W8 y
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.- J, t4 f7 X0 |, |: x6 V
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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