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Sometimes people come into your life
2 g$ S# P9 g2 Q s4 b! X4 B3 g+ d; `you know right away that they were meant to be there,( G' j) X6 Q: F$ h6 _
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,! b& x0 C2 H% x7 p) h; E2 D
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
$ A9 S) Q' J' b& d& x2 gThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.( l2 {- i) v7 ~
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,' P' A( a3 o/ _" }+ [
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON- i, D1 D- S! w0 H% X
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.! P) j, Q8 `# `( h( L
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.1 @0 V% C4 `8 n
They may teach you something you have never done.$ R! o/ ]- E# a2 b' l
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.: ?1 ?' Z% Q6 _7 w
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:1 B5 x9 ~% c+ h3 E# ~
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,6 h. l* W+ ]. I0 c. V9 W% k. B8 R: H. J
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.+ U' v+ D# x; j! L' |3 {# `
Everything happens for a reason.
4 M- K0 i2 b9 p4 `Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
- L& J, ^) [' E! }Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
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9 k% i2 p! d' w' {2 L% @ y7 y% WIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,: U8 j: ~8 `" ?" _, s3 n0 H
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,6 g3 U5 v2 l$ |! d; C5 h
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,' f' l4 Z2 f9 U! z
for they have helped you learn about trust
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. q$ ^1 @/ Q* _# ~* UIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
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not only because they love you, but because in a way,, f' W$ B" J% f1 \; J
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.9 v# @$ n" b- y o W! t" Z7 Z
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,* q! J4 O& {9 N/ m$ N2 O" g
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
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God's grace is as a healing hand.
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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