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~SOMETIMES~! ^( |( A4 Z9 w* W
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Sometimes people come into your life8 Z3 Y8 P8 H7 M1 o8 y+ `
you know right away that they were meant to be there,3 P8 ~2 ~9 L' Y0 T" `2 \! K
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
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: |' X* e. Q8 MYou never know who these people may be
* P$ D0 A7 ^/ X0 ^$ m+ d7 `1 ibut when you lock eyes with them,/ Z# K) Q7 z/ Z
you know at that very moment,
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/ ?) J5 Q5 ~* v# JThey will affect your life in some profound way' L4 \, y$ b, @* v" \1 w9 s+ n6 Y5 ~
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!- l" `, g2 Q2 x d' `8 y
They are there for the reason you need them to be.% M2 u' G4 t8 S0 q6 \
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
6 `: a- U% t- t7 CSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
" U0 n* O, t4 j- ~- w* u$ _Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.- g& b- I/ O# C
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,: b! q5 r1 s' z: z, R7 u) j& M4 w) b8 e
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.3 Z$ z$ o2 h6 W% }
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
7 y7 w$ G9 @/ J. mAnd now it is time for you to move on.: C7 o$ p' g1 Q7 q% t; T
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3 c: G) b5 u! h% h8 CThen people come into your life for a REASON. c3 |- o: q# j1 a5 R+ p# v
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
3 H% D% ?" Y" J( r/ C+ Y7 cThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.- ^8 P4 N& J+ k% P+ ] h, H
They may teach you something you have never done.' C+ D7 U; w$ B$ ?/ A) k
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.' o. A/ O) J8 k; G3 X5 ~
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
, s5 @7 T, H5 @% V- JYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,/ _, ^, i& ^4 e4 `4 Z4 `9 q
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life." }% V7 s& S& c! s
Everything happens for a reason.
! k2 y/ t2 Z) y7 _9 HNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
$ N: s% Q3 p O' eIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,: L# \* ~5 [$ }6 } A) |
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.! j+ o5 V% r+ }! c( G4 L: |. i7 E. o) e5 q
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- a# O6 S' m4 ~ CIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,5 f# D) g4 q0 b
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,9 T% C: H7 g: @
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,, u1 _' s; o% c, f
for they have helped you learn about trust' p8 ?" @" `6 ~! s5 l5 G3 y7 _; j6 A. |
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
# @4 h c5 Y2 ?5 r/ vIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
5 H- G* H+ G5 t: H% q/ }* uTry to love them back unconditionally,$ U0 U4 d, H5 ^. E
not only because they love you, but because in a way,7 n- @+ k) X/ u. z
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.* C7 B, g, m$ ]6 f9 x5 n# I1 o9 F% _
5 G$ L" o, Z; g4 y; h6 B$ {9 bThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
" F0 l, p% C3 e0 ~# B! PA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
* P f$ s; X8 q% n Z9 I$ c/ U* mand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
7 Z8 T) q% z; z9 aGod's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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