Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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) Z8 C2 m+ z- e: u2 o. n# ?* ZWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
, V: }3 k' s( n) B  s9 d+ v6 [/ cTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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5 z! A8 G; q& `, B# `2.        Speak up when she’s good
: m/ O5 b8 A' `0 |6 ~6 ]0 a8 CIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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; o0 N- c2 U, m" L  _; H1 o3.        Stay one step ahead
, ^; h# c% ?. N: M2 V# h' zLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
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0 ?$ |" ^( _+ x! m. KWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
4 E* ?+ r* d) g' M, l& d' W. F3 z4 [
: l# k# _; d$ r- G4 h, r. h* i1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
7 {* A5 z9 s( V# p# ~& i* gTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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