Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
; D: e7 Q; m$ ]8 ?Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

( v$ f" ~* P. g8 E2.        Speak up when she’s good
0 @2 C  W" q9 @9 kIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

% b/ i3 [! ~' d: z( ^: D3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
0 E; F. S+ `5 ZFrom no to yes
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2 c9 y3 H+ \9 iWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

: s4 w2 T) x6 P1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
2 E( B  N4 N9 m6 E1 V) t/ XTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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