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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. 0 X2 o0 V" k2 n6 N9 x' N( h0 ?
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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of people he/she hates.
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 8 v  G6 M9 d  b3 m1 ]2 Q

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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes 3 K$ e+ R. r7 I( p! r0 `' K
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. # ^' ?0 j8 Q: V8 G2 @7 g- `

" i+ }2 x( t" K9 t5 i" [2 iDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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6 c. G+ x. e/ {+ _- mdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. 6 Y* _+ J! f/ y5 x; Z( b# v
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through # ^& I6 q4 c. D4 @3 ]! Y
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. 8 _7 [+ X6 g( l& M9 S, L

8 @* ~+ l( o. h) m3 RThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. 5 k/ J$ z! s% }4 @5 t  v
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry : `5 R1 i1 r/ Y' ?6 P  e1 x4 _1 }! ]
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 7 A) o4 W$ {1 X( B* E8 X+ ^: E
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred 7 n5 X: ]) t% K0 y

7 X5 o& p3 y& j, Ain your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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