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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED 8 G; ]' f# }; L( g5 `
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: w4 ?! |# f" f- a1 D( _A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. - e0 r6 j$ @! p) b0 O
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that ! M1 j8 y' W3 o% p
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number 7 G) X, H+ k, ~4 s6 G  T
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of people he/she hates.
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with 0 m$ }% L! B5 n6 f! O0 E4 `

. Z- d8 Z, Y3 \' ^! ^. \the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 0 c9 j# d- ^( M. w& _

' G2 c& S8 w6 W: h% l& g0 |3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes & a6 q7 m, i7 |  q1 h) ^
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain   L$ U; r* Y2 d( B8 x
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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0 r9 P. Z8 I- S$ dthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 : e& R( k* v! s' z& a
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. ( B- a! C, j/ m. F4 ~) s1 Y
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes 5 N% l8 S  F1 C7 [
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and , G7 M: K/ ^# @( x5 Z: V$ T& G5 S% z( a
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through + b6 o, X3 ?5 Q1 k* v6 T
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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$ p$ V9 C1 ~% n% gThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. ' ?+ S7 K( l: @2 `: i/ u

9 K6 E; N; v/ D) L" Q3 i/ `The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred : R8 Q% T' O1 F- |) u
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just ) g/ X. x" H: _4 t8 z& A

" [1 E8 o# `% I7 a# }* X1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
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9 m& H6 J% H4 }2 z5 f5 m4 f( win your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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8 b4 u! M3 J2 P8 A: I. h- B  e" x5 X( ~4 Vit is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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