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% W. S. Y, y/ _1 IHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters& m3 k/ e4 Q! y( j/ D! X; \. \4 Q9 b
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.1 r: f! l& ?; F; _) {6 g
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?", S, k% d! z6 Y- `( U; ~* G$ W
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( M/ O9 ]. v$ W% X% N3 wFine.
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) d4 `& I8 }8 gThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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6 a, ~. D3 x) v% VNot bad.
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- @) T- |9 s w$ T# A5 v( JThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".3 E" W6 W$ e; P& @: @
, J# n, ?: F N; ?( HFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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/ c5 B1 B% F/ ?) Y* u1 QA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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* o6 ]& g: o& B: EIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.* A7 v N2 D$ N0 \
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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3 l( k# v: F2 t; gI'm hanging in there.) x0 E* w3 b3 b% C
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.2 G/ O) H9 e, \0 v
3 q4 L; K. U! m; PI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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+ O, ~+ d1 _ o0 M$ ^A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.
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2 m1 c' w3 D3 N. f+ _A: What's wrong?6 K4 k3 _. [- `5 L
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.0 @" L8 c6 ?, N0 ]
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1 S, D' z# o- k y% kThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.1 W) P1 Y- d! M& @
4 G7 G8 `! ?% {# X# k+ F! R1 ~Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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0 n, H7 O1 ~; t) J, uIt's going well. " ] L d( [% S D
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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1 A6 \* g( P( s+ C9 s7 l2 y6 ~What's up?
% o5 D6 a: z, R3 ~: c& fThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:8 L" N7 j5 N$ i
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation.". _/ s6 Z( E1 q( p( r& s8 e3 I. f
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Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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+ X: T1 v* X6 ]+ nNothing.8 |$ e' c' a4 t4 H- p7 w6 \% A
, z8 B- i" q4 G d2 _$ ^. h, X8 {This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.; d5 B$ y2 o2 N p/ v
/ _7 l }' W5 I& T {) C# R9 S- oOh, just the usual.+ b9 I0 \2 S5 F5 [3 f. M6 _
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0 H: _+ m e! k7 d1 w8 hJust the same old same old.6 V, x- M: e6 A7 d+ M
. h/ v) q% ], f& _- T+ pThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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2 C4 L" F& ~0 e E0 d) POh gosh, all kinds of stuff!5 X% P b& X' ^; S, A
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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; L; n: g7 S+ a+ t! RWhat's happening?
, j7 Y, L, s* EThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.0 U1 b' |( o. o' V$ x7 t$ m& Y
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