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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters. _% Q" @ e" D# X, B+ N+ V
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"* S( s2 ~. c1 O8 M* h1 v: |' N
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How are you?' q8 d9 {, L1 y/ l2 u$ H
Fine.2 |: o `' I* |8 `' ^' Z" b" v
) L* k$ ?% u s UThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.% `: w; a1 A: y
& G6 N6 U6 X7 eNot bad.+ Y3 O$ X' r% o
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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- @9 I+ Y) }4 n+ DThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.9 s2 j2 m. N( i6 T n* I
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Very well, thanks.! N& ^! F* ]' _' x0 C9 ~- M% F
2 q1 x: H9 I( B, IA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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2 c/ K( k3 V% \4 F) h# UPretty good.
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4 z% K+ C' R8 V% NIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?; G8 U* @6 S1 l. h3 ~
, w2 f& k8 k6 {4 DThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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. I9 a2 y' a+ `: o3 C! i" I5 kThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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5 g! H: ~: v6 C5 VI've been better.. W" S3 C. m* i& S6 H* N1 Q# _
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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4 E$ ^0 T7 |, ^7 u" yA: How are you?
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) T) x- N4 Q* F$ F EB: I've been better.
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3 q; E; F% l2 G4 m+ N9 g: KA: What's wrong?! M' B- M& T# f# ^
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.+ ?+ v! v* ?3 }( t( e
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?", q% @! _. a. }* X% h7 S
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It's going well.
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- @5 J1 _4 ?' H1 c% g, lThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 1 f$ L2 `. e4 y4 \ w
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:' L4 c4 u4 G+ t, @" m
2 T' y! K' B5 z/ d6 ~$ yNothing much.
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: Q& z6 A% ]5 i( e* |' TThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."1 a1 Q: P' N8 |9 M3 n
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Not a lot.4 G$ h8 @! {3 {+ k" a& m' {5 V
+ m- K+ p# {+ _, XThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.3 K/ v" t7 Z1 V6 O! V3 |: I4 h1 S
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Nothing.
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$ f( @# u" E J4 _" E! f$ NThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.: }2 W& q; H1 P$ O7 W2 L! `, b* ^
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.6 ?- w3 Y/ g3 D- s) L. }$ L7 ]
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!) t* J V2 o7 h1 v2 L+ }- s
1 D* o7 h9 k4 w7 T5 p8 wYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way. P4 H' U$ L& y8 @* w) X% `
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