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" U* [1 A6 W9 Z1 A5 ~( aHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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+ s% a j4 _' c: x4 j EThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss./ e5 c0 ^' O! Z4 s; F t+ W
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"+ w( x. t# K+ Z" B' n8 \0 \7 U
# t, `( F$ O" \% G. DHow are you?2 H- `. |& v W7 t* Z. L
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.4 k$ j$ E1 y, v/ l7 ~* n0 n
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! C+ g% H* ]$ K4 B1 q. s+ UThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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' W: k" p a5 M7 r. G x5 BThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.) [) E: F( |* |- R
a; H& T2 D& D V2 n* ?$ ?7 nVery well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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9 w# I3 a& b0 C( z: V1 R0 \# HPretty good.. l! N" G1 s* I5 d1 C, Z7 K7 ^
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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3 E" ?( U8 u1 ?2 G4 \8 ]0 NGreat! How are you doing?# ~3 b4 w* ]8 Z# y6 F4 H. Z* \
/ w8 @6 E/ n' O8 P1 jThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.0 r9 ]1 v/ } g7 e2 p6 T
) j t7 [% u! ]8 J; d GI'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.: x4 q9 B5 r# W4 Y
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I've been better." X/ t7 n! A0 a7 V- J
% O0 Q% k+ \" U+ ?# ~People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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B: I've been better.
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; k' \/ M, u, R4 [+ X5 v, B* I: p- ^) cA: What's wrong?+ `4 P3 E% K B7 @! g% N
: W- z/ p4 a" e$ X' V6 p# sB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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9 S5 K" z3 U7 H) f$ q) VHow's it going?7 G3 j# \0 Q- i
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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+ q! o7 y. j' a; x8 w9 m9 F- ~7 t+ C8 N BIt's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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+ ^, J% ^: Z) D* U5 m$ F4 {What's up?
& \" Q/ @% g- @6 ^9 i! KThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:. C( [; g9 t3 F1 b, o3 u/ h2 {
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.! M8 I: F4 K/ C2 X) p6 k1 u# K9 D
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+ X& x, Q# D' B0 L, r0 DThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.9 W5 a1 ?: J$ A/ A L
; V# a7 ?6 C3 M$ O9 t& cOh, just the usual.
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$ z$ v N: l& ]Just the same old same old. _, @% u# B9 S7 ]
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it., F( U( W' f5 [: X7 S0 T( B4 g
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.* B8 s! S8 T8 `' x% S* r
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