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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters' ~2 h. C' Y5 G+ J4 t
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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7 Q7 O- |; M; w$ B9 t* U* @9 _You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?* {! Z( n5 ~6 u8 ]* m: K
Fine.' Q' U: X, t2 W
' d# \7 H* e/ |$ Y7 j% tThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.( x. X. m& }. v) r; W
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.; ~+ J0 t1 J( I- P0 b
' p" h! l% S- b/ a7 rThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.+ l* z& N% Z" i% i
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Very well, thanks." f9 P+ ?9 b# }) ^9 m" m3 P5 B
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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! Y7 p4 W7 z/ M" MPretty good.
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* Q9 a( ]- L) ~( I4 ?, p' VIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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& B) C; t) E) y# T# u% N0 HThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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|& T, W! M- b* c. C, Y0 {" n) tI'm hanging in there.7 t8 T1 G/ @7 [1 H- S. J. V
2 Y: H9 I# |4 W/ {This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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; S! d6 x+ N4 }" MPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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4 X3 x9 t& r5 D9 O, p- n! @A: How are you?
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; O& W9 f. v+ O* F/ UA: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.) o8 H2 w/ y/ r% R J
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How's it going? V, {9 @ K: ]1 f" o8 ^) x. T
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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9 G8 C$ \( a/ e3 }- NHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"$ L! [( ~6 S- b! `4 r
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. - [* s3 E- G4 z
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:# Z h& m& P, n2 p' l2 Q6 U
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Nothing much.
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* d/ X! k0 y9 iThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."5 s. F. J/ {8 a9 ~
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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0 n) d. C1 A; ~ ~; rNothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.0 U* e; l0 U# t6 |1 [' m( y
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Oh, just the usual.
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Just the same old same old.: j" E! p ?4 ?+ |9 D; b9 H$ }. _) C
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!" o" ~1 a# w& w5 K' h! T
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What's happening?
( a4 L5 {1 E1 vThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.: @; e8 ? k+ j7 P0 @ [$ ^
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