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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a 2 X7 K6 O" J! Y/ q5 g! a5 I
nursing home today. 1 T6 x# F" i4 n5 C# I3 E
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
6 X3 y; l1 i. v3 Q1 L# \3 m% pAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
7 z$ }2 h1 u/ Khe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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8 ~+ a |: w: E2 KAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual " V( x+ |3 s' {
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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3 L+ ^- \- a9 y( m"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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% E$ ^4 o7 b6 ~/ f"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. 0 F8 K0 ~/ R! R% G
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my ( T" [6 u( [. s- U3 H' N! r
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
7 O/ H }) r3 \& O0 w& Q5 n8 o4 l/ @. gI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 5 M: o" n6 r0 q9 N
# N7 x8 x* \! p5 B8 rIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. ! b) G! \1 \% P) j$ G& K7 f
" {7 Y* w! P9 v* a" qI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I - r7 V0 p8 ]& }; y) t& T7 [9 h- p
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed ( Z3 g% F0 x( A8 p
and be thankful for the ones that do.
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) }0 V: |3 p, u2 X5 Y* h1 MEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new + c* |' d8 Y; H: ?3 r; @ @
day and all the happy memories I've stored away. J; l' J0 D5 w: }( Y" F: D
: o5 Z; I; M* \Just for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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`* x8 h; f0 V" y; N, V v5 e7 WSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank ) U& O2 v# ~- C. U$ f
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. 7 o) h( h7 Z6 Z) r
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1. Free your heart from hatred. 0 A8 J7 T$ x( f s- M; h" e+ {
2. Free your mind from worries.
4 s% c [, g2 ~ 3. Live simply. / h7 w3 a( {0 r1 M/ Z8 u
4. Give more. : E& B _9 P/ x
5. Expect less. |
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