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| 本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 8 ?) l% Y+ z! @' L" i
 3 B! K+ _' Z* t; g3 {( i% h兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15  3 R' n  Z" }- f% C6 S 老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦
 ( v! U. N0 o0 KThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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 In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.( }( q4 r1 _" l  P: W
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 A reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly.
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