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Touching words from the mouths of babes.0 @$ H( o; Y+ _, l `8 I \+ r" m
What does 'Love' mean?
f6 x Q% U& uA group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'
& C- J) l- v, ?$ GThe answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
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'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.) e8 t4 B' o2 x- l+ E* Q8 s1 V
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So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'9 i8 J2 u6 j% s
Rebecca- age 8& p# i8 X" ]0 @
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: P/ W! N4 F6 p+ y# s) w'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
+ h2 Y: P7 W2 m9 `You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
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$ ] [$ p- B4 D* m b'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'
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A2 y3 Y: U! R: s# l'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'+ F5 _+ n- g. R' R
C hrissy - age 6% ^9 g( U1 a; y2 F- d$ y2 u: |
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'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
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8 X2 t5 D2 [. w* b9 w# d'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.$ e5 p: u" L4 x4 g* x
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'; o. V4 _4 M% p
Emily - age 8
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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'
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'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'
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Nikka - age 65 l- l. @4 g s
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)5 Q, m# ~; M l3 P @+ B1 B- u5 u
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'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.': T4 J; D/ Q& e; u5 p
Tommy - age 6" H$ _2 i3 J* b q( \+ @; |
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'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
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/ H( i) e0 \! R: zHe was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
! L9 z x1 B, g kCindy - age 8/ h; v( O1 B4 {6 n
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'My mommy loves me more than anybody
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You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'
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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'" H; _* ]- c$ T+ y
Elaine-age 5
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7 W0 p# k# o% J" Z. r* ^& f% U/ e. D'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.': M4 @. ?# C2 \% ?0 G1 Q: N
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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'0 d1 }3 z& N+ U! [
Mary Ann - age 4
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Lauren - age 4
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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)# R: k3 {( j9 p1 w& b' D2 f
Karen - age 73 O- l: o' H% j2 L* \
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'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'( x6 d1 ]2 [$ b+ ^$ q" j7 q! c
Jessica - age 89 d7 B- B& R8 \2 |, C
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: T, U* {' O7 K$ |2 r- ^+ b# oAnd the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.; Z9 E! y' ^7 V4 H' F, d
9 a2 b/ ^: d! a; C- tThe winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.7 p% q" P- I7 T2 r
) h$ x8 i. S1 v5 BWhen his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,+ O, ] O" B0 D k
'Nothing, I just helped him cry' |
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