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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee9 R: r2 k, b3 k: }) P
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
7 m; C: r* w* Y/ R7 N# W> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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3 [" Y8 `# Y# F* P' k> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
# P6 c) G2 [& c& o" l" y> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
/ ?0 _% w8 Q+ U> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
. V4 w c- G; K' f0 d$ F; ~> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ; w, J. s/ A: i8 e5 b) M$ l+ l% c
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 4 n# u+ Z) m. O; R- m
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
5 [ Q0 I7 C% G" @ K' `> agreed it was.
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4 S% z' W& `9 O> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
5 c, }) E5 Z1 q' B> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 4 Z/ f4 e: _ @9 r8 C [% B
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."3 a3 }8 X4 V* \: S
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) U3 y! L' g& ]> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + t5 N& w, J! ?( C, H
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
+ q2 D0 f' Y+ j> space between the sand. The students laughed.1 S1 w$ M- w7 p( R* }3 ?
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 5 N: o. O; k: [' q: @
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
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> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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+ C% r2 w* L# q0 g+ j* ~; Y( f( h> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
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> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
$ Z4 o O# o, J( [6 f2 e' a> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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- x$ |3 w( M, D7 `> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 3 y6 c$ p. J7 v5 S' p: |6 ~
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 9 ^. N3 \. ^2 V. D
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 1 L/ }7 i3 ]1 P: \
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ( p0 I3 \ k9 f
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that : `7 P* l6 d: ^9 N
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.": r K1 D0 @" _3 d2 z: ~9 k
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 6 w7 X" i6 b6 \/ `2 a
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
* P1 E1 i& I, q* N> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.": ?! Y+ `) ^5 ^. V$ J
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4 i- k3 c" \4 ?' v> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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