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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。5 E/ r- K9 }1 W" Z; l% ?
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee3 z* X" V7 p) H( h
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 7 | H: T2 J7 Y4 w% Q. m( A! V, Z. k @" L
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of , _ J% W1 X% B. D) @
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5 k w b* w$ F& b, h> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
1 e" N2 W" F9 ^8 P> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and : ?6 q2 v" A# M4 u3 p7 Q0 l
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 5 u/ H) N, M- W, d2 s
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.0 G3 _$ y1 l4 M& n7 d3 V) [
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 1 V0 o' Y3 ~ M1 f% t' h/ Y
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
& _- P: S, |( j! D9 I> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( K1 \* t C: O' ~> agreed it was.- Y6 b8 g0 a- V# P% Y/ ~' F" h* J
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
% S' W& A" E( h. F> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
) X }; i! \! {8 e" F> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."$ e3 Y; O; J& \; B: N
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. U4 E, x1 J% A( l/ {3 v& F> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
% a4 |. f7 A/ Y> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
B; A2 [9 l2 x> space between the sand. The students laughed.3 Z5 A5 o; n* N
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* ^: @/ B' ^5 F0 |+ _7 \> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ) ~3 ?6 m2 |8 \& y8 x8 H* g) n
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
/ U# h& d; {' j H, i5 u> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
6 E, o, z% a6 k: i1 D/ g: H0 E> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they " E H7 a% z* e$ y5 r9 F1 N* x, `
> remained, your life would still be full.8 n5 ^4 e9 S1 y$ ]% \
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; T Z3 t1 c6 N> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and # X% i; r( ]1 L1 \# h- G
> your car.
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8 O2 P" f( w% P) t0 K, k# M! [> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ; j0 K0 O. T# ?: |' g
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
6 s! j( H3 Q. z' y. f: E% D> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
! K' l* h3 ?, k: w* W# X; S, K> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
. J& ^0 b/ f" P2 |> important to you.9 \% R. e* i/ u
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ' z! U- @. F# ~/ z7 {/ ~
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ( h+ }; u, ]; A
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
& f3 a4 i! f4 P! J" f6 F> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
1 j d; I! S1 b1 a L) J$ @> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
3 F8 {$ M$ ~0 m% Z0 ~! ]> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee : @( |2 y1 @6 h6 U; P' x
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
) F# u' k0 v: z> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."0 P5 k& t# T5 u G7 F
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