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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
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say—listen for the name.
" a3 `* ^8 v" ^* b# P& T, P; _* r3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
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with the same name.
2 ^" b1 [0 Q& l# i: ~& @' p/ R$ Q: I4 u5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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