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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to( n8 x9 y3 F% r& C4 b
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
$ _2 w4 {, w( Bthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
3 |; ?9 j( C9 r- Hyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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6 _& L5 z( m, S; w1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.! P/ m3 I8 c& H8 a( s4 ~. u# O: o
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
2 o6 B) e4 [0 X: ~0 `" n4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the3 _5 v2 K- k8 s( N# [5 v/ R( z& }7 ?
end of the conversation.% a+ J$ ?- Q0 k9 J1 m
3 |4 [3 u( u$ q" \---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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