The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to5 v2 O( Y& e B. @
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear2 I3 N @/ y- x; S7 Z! ~* w
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what - D8 u* c. M3 d+ P4 J7 Cyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will 9 ^1 q! m: t6 C" othink of you. * t7 Y- A. S+ S& b1 K0 b3 q1 P: P 0 ?% l+ [# @( o0 lUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first ' S" E; ^% h' g: t Z. fnames:0 O2 W. `! W3 l5 W- i+ t* B+ k: A
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction. / J( _1 r) p) ]: w" f$ L2) The second second: Don't think about what to * p4 }) G# w6 }& L' p5 ?say—listen for the name. 5 c7 v7 n. x2 H, b) y# Q3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.) i$ z3 Y0 B( o2 f8 [
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know 7 M- t. }, o7 U1 c+ H4 qwith the same name., M0 G8 f; Y$ J2 R- D. G
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the 8 p. J! v' C! q( G( r; O& ?2 iend of the conversation. * D8 c" o% h- W" z. k. {2 f6 E' S" q7 Y5 W w% \3 }
---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>