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~SOMETIMES~$ _* Z3 O; Y3 g5 M4 j
& d0 f q* L5 W9 ]Sometimes people come into your life: i b. d4 I5 y/ ^
you know right away that they were meant to be there,) _( K$ {4 c9 N5 |3 H$ S) A
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
$ {1 U" z4 M: m. cor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be0 P( G/ Z5 A/ P# V1 p
but when you lock eyes with them,
( p+ H" k& T; O, P( w; E! M8 L- Iyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way% E( V' j2 t, O2 I
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
$ V! c9 k/ u, n4 h1 M/ G& xThey are there for the reason you need them to be.4 [1 r: P" T- R8 j
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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$ q7 g* r' ~7 M* ]8 ?+ sThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.# H( O9 d+ j) R) _9 g- M
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
& `& @- r9 w( [5 ^ [( C, @ xSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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8 \5 B- |3 X# a' B; y l; qWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 ], r% W, b0 O* c& V$ M1 pour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
0 N+ e6 D$ m5 u- w, W; r6 l- wThe prayer you sent up has been answered.; a/ e2 U% F* T4 h9 x& h* C7 n
And now it is time for you to move on.4 |* X/ A/ Q: k) M# y2 b
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0 U& G) }, r/ O: ?) p) `( fThen people come into your life for a REASON9 {& d2 W& L) u6 ^) {
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
0 c$ @) |2 T! p8 x" IThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.; l+ v& p( _/ o e( Y
They may teach you something you have never done.% q2 p5 t5 K+ y
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.- F1 x; I2 M/ ?4 n
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦+ u$ [; H k/ K& s5 K- S" D
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% e, A6 c* ^" E0 d4 z& F* CLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
9 l/ U' C* j3 l2 | `Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
+ G* L6 J& k% y+ v* wPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.4 q1 n* ?" c% k9 \$ ]
Everything happens for a reason.
7 F3 e: T+ q4 u1 x; tNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”." ~1 Z1 Y* N M" g! Q0 _- U( w
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,$ d3 U; q6 R' Q3 H: w+ F- E% D; L
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.1 Y- @& s5 `4 e, O
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6 N1 F+ h* Z/ \1 e. tIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
; W7 i5 M' v0 R3 @8 w! cfor they have helped you learn about trust4 d2 y5 C) G+ z. w. V& f
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.& o% ~# L) H0 h# t" V
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,7 x4 l# J1 O ?
Try to love them back unconditionally,* q: p7 y* }6 I# E( f
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,) O0 V8 A, c6 \( x7 `' g" v
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.7 ^! u9 t, X! P+ V
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
' s' I# ]1 h! X; Qand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."* c0 J+ f9 ?7 J V7 v. m; J
God's grace is as a healing hand.
* b. W0 F/ i/ c6 d3 n2 D2 ~! P9 QAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
1 I% N9 H% z9 w, V! nthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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