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 : E7 x0 F$ d% vSometimes people come into your life( C) H0 w2 n" m, u6 ?
 you know right away that they were meant to be there,' V; A9 i$ ]* R* w$ l/ o
 to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
 3 H" i9 [) O; O' l4 {$ m$ wor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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 & u7 a1 B- T+ d$ P  H" xYou never know who these people may be
 * v1 [$ c- @' A$ e% [4 Zbut when you lock eyes with them,
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 They will affect your life in some profound way
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 They may seem like a godsend, and they are!' O' c  \7 s! `: s% L! J7 ~
 They are there for the reason you need them to be.& [/ Y9 l# d1 M; l
 Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,8 a& s2 n  h4 h  S. G
 
 . j2 I' f! p& e* i4 N# l5 `( wThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  m6 D& i! |% K" ?+ g/ H
 Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.$ A: e) d3 E* ^' B: J. U1 C
 Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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 What we must realize is that our need has been met,
 3 c( Q4 d8 `8 ?3 ~5 aour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
 ! B+ R8 k. u% N# eThe prayer you sent up has been answered.+ W$ F3 n2 t' e6 E1 f% D4 A- {
 And now it is time for you to move on.
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 Then people come into your life for a REASON! `1 d( O$ ?, }1 T# `+ a5 ^) V
 Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.2 d, N3 Z8 ^. F/ i
 They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.2 A6 R! b4 i9 _8 a2 p
 They may teach you something you have never done.$ L9 q: A# C% S4 H
 They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
 : P; l- a. ]* [3 HBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦9 J: _' v4 z) R) I/ D
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 / r, k" j. W- z& B3 tLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:9 q& ?' N/ E4 O" D
 Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
 % y4 G, A/ X) `2 y9 ]0 V( ]7 qPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
 " G5 N$ C- W/ ?, a+ v+ V0 J" I# PEverything happens for a reason.3 Z( t# h, |. ~- V$ A0 s8 F
 Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.; F. R0 R. O) z; V; y
 Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,2 g' \% l) g! v) ]$ }; B
 and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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 If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,+ s) V% m. r( `
 You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
 2 \! i3 N. b. K% fIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,( c) J3 H, T2 y& I- t/ S2 X  L7 T
 for they have helped you learn about trust6 P9 ?  g% V9 s  r9 q5 ~  o+ i7 E
 and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
 6 s" p, W5 {) }. c9 Q2 ~If someone loves you, express your appreciation,- q# e: u% g2 B& j
 Try to love them back unconditionally,
 # y( S" J) D/ X+ Z0 _( P0 onot only because they love you, but because in a way,
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 5 [) O4 ~/ f: |  @The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,6 g8 v7 {( n" o
 
 ) b9 g7 _8 a0 N9 {3 n  D$ c' band a time to every purpose under the sun./ b! y1 k! W0 i" {" N. |3 ?& z1 ^
 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant," Z3 r3 ?6 f8 b( N, E/ J
 and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."8 Z5 N* E" _7 c3 n8 F. ^
 God's grace is as a healing hand.
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 the warm memories and love for those we have lost( g% e, K  P; [! z+ p! ~2 i7 B
 will remain always safe in our hearts.
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