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> What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line,
! |! r/ q$ M! k+ R> there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the
6 U' U ?) }+ W. \8 {> same choice?
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> At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children,
) `$ w) C" ]( ]% Q9 U! M7 i> the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be0 }9 u9 x- o* k" {% q- c- s4 U2 B. Z
> forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated1 @- E$ U' ]2 m
> staff, he offered a question:
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> 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is
( I. |+ g" w( C# l8 I- [8 G> done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other
& d6 v7 y+ ^+ P0 b) w5 K> children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the) p9 f! Q# S3 j! \0 c0 }4 I
> natural order of things in my son?'9 o8 H+ [- B% J+ }6 m
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> The audience was stilled by the query.5 Z' P( T1 k4 z- g9 S) |5 u, I3 b+ O8 N
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( u7 o9 ]" g2 R% Z# M8 \> The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, physically2 \% C! R8 a; h! M! r
> and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize. Q" K3 A: v1 D, |: {" V; d
> true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people
5 A( A6 D- c6 z+ v5 J> treat that child.'
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: k4 G9 w1 n9 I> Then he told the following story:6 {7 w: i4 J7 Z4 C6 [9 Y
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* O x" _9 k- @5 R" o> Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were
6 _: ]: s u5 X- l& u> playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' Shay's
. y$ F' s1 [% O( ^, K$ C& e> father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their9 s: X# E+ W- m* j* K3 E* h- c& E
> team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play,2 N! O y3 L7 Q- I( }+ b; x4 n/ o
> it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be
+ |7 g- y* |% V) s4 ]> accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.9 j8 z& l6 E) J# @) I
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> Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not
( I! ~+ j) x/ H& v1 s> expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and
* D% t, P# S- `! J> said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I+ ~! Y; r- t9 w. X h/ b5 h% o& t
> guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth
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1 s ?4 q. T$ ]) U. b- Y2 v> Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a
0 X3 e# e& {" L. V. Q7 R> team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in
7 c3 e" o8 i: P+ q" F2 E> his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the5 I* i( M) ~: @ H
> bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still
; @, C; Y1 a! a/ Z6 ]& d> behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and5 U# `# c) o, B l
> played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was
+ T7 x. I; o6 ]$ J& f5 Q, o: e> obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from4 Q8 n0 D; w; Z N: g
> ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the
# z+ s d9 D" k) y. a# ]' ?% h> ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases
4 U& h9 Q' y# a> loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be ?& j: }0 h& _5 _0 z8 O& @
> next at bat.
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w4 @( i) ]- k7 G5 v$ t7 H> At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the
; Q1 ^7 P; c& P0 n2 a O2 z' w3 \> game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat Everyone knew that a hit was all* ?& y" o/ h2 X8 y- [
> but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly,# V& \: I2 L6 o. g
> much less connect with the ball.$ C Q4 R* X3 o# c$ P
> However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the6 Q: n3 | @2 G/ P. m& Z# F" s/ K
> other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved
$ i9 P \; I* J2 p% b> in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make2 _, _2 ]! Y }6 a) i8 b' b
> contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The
$ n2 s! k3 D9 N# x9 P" _> pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.* _% Z9 [) b* x5 i+ J" s
> As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball
* M" y9 G; [+ P( u> right back to the pitcher.
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> The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and, x9 ~5 D! h/ P2 ~! C9 P
> could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been( u, g1 h0 |$ j& `, ^7 ]: `+ w
> out and that would have been the end of the game.; B5 g o! y( q- Z9 O0 u& E V1 H; |
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> Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out
' ^2 |$ z: Z4 S, ]" Q> of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started
6 {& G/ a1 m% {/ x* c# y> yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!' Never in his life had Shay ever" X9 Y. Y! E1 R) Y) ]& r
> run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline,: w6 q S3 e1 C/ ~2 |9 ^
> wide-eyed and startled.
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> Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath, Shay
0 k5 d* }1 P/ h# }# S i P8 B/ R> awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the8 H& P* M$ N! w' o
> base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had
' d0 j" |3 Q& }7 X- l> the ball ... The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to( O& v" U% q2 ?6 r. m
> be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the* o: p* M9 @+ X& ?, K c# f
> second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intention So he, n6 R6 R1 w) Q0 W3 C& t/ G
> too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's
% e& @: ^! w0 v8 O> head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him- C; g' B7 ]' V% [+ D" E
> circled the bases toward home.
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> All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'" q6 D3 S, y$ \: b+ n
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1 N5 D [- X$ r8 [> Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by+ S0 g6 g+ N# j/ q3 {0 t( x
> turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!& ]# w1 H& K3 L1 D
> Shay, run to third!'9 {5 b" k3 d9 y6 F# I
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> As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on
: C( I# z" a& S/ U> their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped0 J9 c- A* p; A# z
> on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the; n" a/ @1 }0 y( u
> game for his team.8 |4 U+ [/ v/ }2 p- v+ T, y
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> 'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,
7 s# O4 }7 Z1 q9 ] ^+ H& Z3 b> 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity
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> Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never
: ?: |' D- v8 r# e& |( C> forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and: G4 x& P& d' R. U
> seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
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> AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes* A0 @3 _+ m; @" X! k
> through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending
$ n7 m" L) D/ O6 p/ z: @3 l> messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often, |" G4 O; L" d5 R3 X% C
> obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency, k: @( H, F1 f; T" M; Y
> is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.
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> If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're
' M: w! @" t z4 V2 T' \> probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the
2 L# }% T9 `4 U> 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who+ {4 V. q) X' C5 ~0 u) a1 U$ h
> sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have. }+ g3 `: s5 s H
> thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the 'natural! D" D; R! ^; x) P% O+ R8 I
> order of things.' So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people
- N9 Q, R! S- |9 ~- h- h> present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and
5 W g- Y% f. o5 o. g$ o> humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little, K5 W. D0 x5 t+ O
> bit colder in the process?; n% \# _" B" G% G* H
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) t4 U2 ?, {0 H) k> A wise man once said every society is judged by( H" z! {2 w- |
> how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.
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! z$ P0 \# v3 I6 M H% E1 u> You now have two choices:1 a: e5 G4 X- A: V
> 1. Delete5 c4 |/ ~) ~* s: d5 s
> 2. Forward) a( }" J6 q$ q
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> May your day, be a Shay Day. |
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