Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
& R) n3 ~! K, ?: Z9 z: w* XIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3.        Stay one step ahead
% z1 ~# t  S3 C" ?, U. aLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
: _2 ]0 z+ t/ W7 p5 TFrom no to yes

+ ?9 o5 b3 C9 n  S; k( tWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
  h/ I3 T) W0 W/ n
$ Y3 a" |) z8 K: S6 v' ^/ e9 V1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
+ _6 y' Q: {3 L3 ^Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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