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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED 6 W1 Q4 ~$ X* z; r0 p0 g7 ]7 w% h

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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.   Y- n6 F/ z" B0 p

9 x6 |. [5 J( ]( f# J5 wThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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5 a6 H) H5 x. S- \bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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9 [- y& |0 S$ l' V3 C7 mof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that 9 E3 D2 Q" T! _; Q" H* m2 g

& b+ |  @% ]) s0 C5 ?, ~* fa child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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of people he/she hates. $ E  `* c( `+ L7 X5 F
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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7 [# S! Z9 K' n' ?2 Fthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 1 `* z/ {- g& L0 \3 l

$ E) r2 N: g# o9 Z7 r) R3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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, W$ I0 w) W) _2 t: T5 XThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes ) ]; f2 X& ?2 {/ ]1 z0 I& c/ F
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain ) X$ l: j% G6 l7 y5 Q6 [' A) {
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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% G, J$ X: Z& G! e/ e1 E1 D% gthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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) J- N8 a6 R) ~week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. ! y# I" o% M- m+ R% R: T
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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3 e1 A9 w0 h- E( R2 h# X( I5 Qwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and # W2 k1 R' v7 n

! s) e/ M5 c* y- W7 Rstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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: O& S/ o$ E5 p4 ]& i4 |having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. * j8 J& b1 o* e( T, P
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. ! \- ^; U! F1 y. Z' |4 I
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 1 c0 T) w4 V! H! @: G0 a# J
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever ; r: A7 g  |# `" z6 n

6 w1 Z8 |$ G9 Y0 h; Z" wyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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# E0 P. A5 H5 x# K# W7 B1 |1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred ) C8 [! {4 ]0 q! z# b/ M9 R0 S
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in your heart for your lifetime???"
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' ?1 N4 W" L! e0 j7 u; z1 E2 w5 \+ v"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; " D( t! B- a" R: V& j/ Q
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it is something you do for yourself. * F, ^7 d* f9 [- M+ X  _. Y7 i  Q
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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