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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
, }. e W- \1 x W0 s& @He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money # @* M" i5 s% A2 D/ w; B* V& Z+ J
for youth at risk programs. - f# C5 q4 D2 F4 H
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
1 ~7 x9 F2 [. M H. m9 i( @! }* O" Y1 ^why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
+ R1 ]4 m+ d# p yman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
$ X" i6 w9 k, [/ D0 E/ f+ rto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
' ]* v7 W3 i% {& A$ _4 W. `horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. % c" D( _! {$ @( m0 }' f
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
) G7 J _( k& I* W/ p! Q( b! p1 F" Dto be and do when he grew up.
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4 ^) k" F$ V+ i0 p* d'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
& z' @ f9 l! v" }! h" K$ sowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even ! {) F! i% M( \9 \
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, + V6 ~* p6 w7 M1 i# Y
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
H) ?9 N# @, X0 f: {house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
& c: }- A& q# X, khanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
* L6 ^$ B0 g! Q0 ~On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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1 N% }& s: Z- A' S' N'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, + c, b8 ]6 H3 {; a i4 E
`Why did I receive an F?' $ f! T) Q- _0 X) }! F% }: e
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
* A$ ~% ^; j. h4 QYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 4 w! Y! E" @3 _
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. ! U( R! ?# d1 H+ H% p# h" }$ h
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to 9 z' F; S6 K/ C( V$ G. f7 Y, b
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher ; G! U1 m/ ~, V$ L0 |6 W, z
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will / ]# P4 q8 r% }: i# L* o1 m" t
reconsider your grade.’
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# @; d; \$ `( K* y'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father % ^! G* l9 L* O" |/ n8 f
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
4 Z; g: w( B! G/ K. Nown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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& }+ {/ V+ ^# O% f% L'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same $ G0 m w- t l
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
6 l6 V7 A$ ]# I1 ?) dkeep my dream.''
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& a: H5 R. z* t3 ?% VMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
4 a @4 p$ p) l" D/ w; pbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
4 b m5 i/ P3 r& ymy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 8 ~2 o$ Z7 [/ c: P
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago , ^ a+ v" Q7 g; }4 M
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' m/ u e$ h6 e9 I5 ?; E6 P9 M$ Y$ T3 B
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this . }& R3 L% {9 j+ Y3 p1 l
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During " \! j9 L! T! K
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
- a: A% p$ J2 G$ K4 w2 `not to give up on yours.’'
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6 ]" f2 I. X$ o; o8 ZDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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