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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. , ]) L* g) K4 ]5 ~. l
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you ! r& `; j5 _* f5 u8 D* h
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young 1 L4 o h( r) B6 \0 A4 n; k- s1 }
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
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& y/ {: S5 F l, ]horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
! B1 N; }4 T2 \8 tWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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- t2 a+ g" l# ]5 `0 y'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
% j# M7 W( i1 Z' Kowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
2 b- r3 i( h- B* ?drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
5 r9 F h( D. t" f7 sthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot # |" x# ~& W- Q/ o) w
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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- s d2 \+ z/ G0 g+ H'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 1 r! l5 y, j8 H4 P3 |; [
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. ! s" [. \; K/ j7 a
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after + `# B9 ^- E2 F/ d. C4 J8 b! G% R7 n
class.'
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
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5 t+ W4 g P0 ?'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. $ }9 z! G# E8 O3 v% e+ q
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
, E8 L& s/ T% m/ v0 Z2 wOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
! S" F0 t/ g* L# M/ KYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to - K+ @/ I2 b! W
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
* d3 o3 i: m" m( c/ D3 c! c8 iadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will . F F0 s6 z) `9 ?' a
reconsider your grade.’
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$ y8 c; V% V2 J* v; c'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father 5 c# n" {7 L6 H7 C
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
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you.’ + A# K8 V6 X. {: t1 u* H
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
+ j7 W) K. V% A$ i8 l! C" Gpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll $ m" I4 B; S6 J2 h* z9 U
keep my dream.'' ( N7 g# s, D* ?
; d* A8 |$ O# E! _; Z# bMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
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my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the % U, d( ~1 h* h6 J$ Q$ G
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
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When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this # \; M! V# u: \8 C
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
/ O/ n t, ^5 e: q! r$ f5 gthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption e- J, e% h3 X$ r
not to give up on yours.’'
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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