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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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! {' o' Z6 Z Q% b1 ?3 |There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.3 U. I! S/ ?4 V! ~
8 Q" g% k2 T5 P6 A3 v4 QYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"+ ]" w G+ S' P. d
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Fine.' L$ ?# D1 B6 c$ s/ X- Z( y' L
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation. w5 H& Y5 @5 r- s7 o
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Not bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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0 \" H9 A* ^: S, s/ V2 i9 Z, VFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.3 a) \! Y! k8 E
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Very well, thanks.: |8 X' k& l9 g2 {5 D6 a
8 a2 I( x% T" S6 DA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.8 _2 ~% W0 W! L5 ]( I( Z q0 {
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.' D( o( P4 \8 G- w" ?7 I
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Great! How are you doing?; K/ J5 P& _8 H
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.& h8 j9 q+ [- m3 `* Z
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I'm hanging in there.) |5 _+ V1 y' v6 s# K
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.
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& P% b. O$ _' X0 B+ H. S7 VA: How are you?
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B: I've been better.
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( c7 [/ F( ]/ m3 XA: What's wrong?
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U7 d; B T y" ?- g4 eB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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" p4 r! _$ W2 bHow's it going?
1 k; u% l1 @- `3 a4 W- RThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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4 j" |+ U& q; dThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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! A$ d( G3 B& d& [This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:: L3 @7 H* d* c8 c$ b! t
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Nothing much.. I# ?3 S1 Z: S/ ^
' B, {) ^2 P' L/ z oThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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9 h5 f- W+ [! y- ONot a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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. }2 b4 W* L& g4 Y+ ]6 j' pNothing.
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3 e! Z% t& L8 r4 BThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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3 n4 S2 M$ J. mOh, just the usual.
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5 t* V/ N+ W" a( K7 E/ EAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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! r+ M0 ] a$ j+ {( m1 EJust the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.; g; h( e5 h3 u9 M. H R# |
9 p; X; E0 \3 }4 aOh gosh, all kinds of stuff! Q" V" |) E1 G. a$ N0 k, q
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.9 U% Z$ i" {& A; W
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