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: e& O) ~1 S- t3 M) uHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters$ w/ [* i* u9 _
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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2 s0 v N6 [) w: `. }5 F w( F8 | SHow are you?
. f; L8 X d7 N0 U+ \& W BFine.6 j! j# z3 u# }/ ?: d5 u
- d @5 r3 k5 E+ d- M5 e. |This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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- B5 R6 `! J5 }! Z, N6 E# INot bad.* s+ m; \; }% D5 R" {
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".7 T. q) h+ q( y0 B2 j* X8 ^6 D
. }/ q% ]* v0 |5 S; e. U. {8 C+ qFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.0 a5 H- d1 T, S
0 l$ y+ Z8 E9 i( @Very well, thanks.4 m$ A: _* T" o; c
, q3 F- x( E6 L3 R* SA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.) l# M2 }& K8 H% _5 ~
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1 I" u0 u p( z+ p: ?* u/ jIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.9 p, P' d" w5 F+ k$ h/ c% Y4 n% N
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.' B3 B0 H, b; }1 c* F
: @, \4 k& J/ Q* _- I6 PThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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1 w* V& `5 m" ^' q5 PI've been better.+ O J* I& U/ Z' C
' D3 A; a Z( N/ i+ h* I2 ~People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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$ A$ f, F# R" l9 [9 ]* i1 \1 gA: How are you?* W( f$ m+ `0 Q' U w
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B: I've been better.6 T( [' ?' [$ h& x: m5 [0 [$ E ?
' J% ]4 m. x. CA: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.4 E ?0 T8 |# s4 D
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How's it going?) [4 f. ~( C( G' x' F, o8 _
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?": Z0 I: ~3 P& h- B' }
$ n$ f6 R; {. c& ?, u rIt's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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0 f9 N4 S: L+ S8 p: A* ?What's up?
/ q2 F+ \1 V# [This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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+ ]; s/ J: u i# d2 f2 j& ?# iNothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.4 O0 U0 b) O0 G1 ~0 z
" ]& M2 f3 J" F; b; RThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.+ W! @! v+ W m1 p4 Y: O
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! u- l( E& W; n2 N; tThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.: _$ n$ m4 h. p1 O( i# T) j& f9 E+ |0 t
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' V; n& a7 ]( ^3 jAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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4 ]' S U! g$ i9 ?3 k: VJust the same old same old.' ?+ k2 V" D" C% ~
' k* g- z! q4 C' F" [8 }This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.1 p; R3 w* w: N6 V: I2 `6 D" [6 F
) D! [5 d0 `7 Z2 MOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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3 H. e7 u3 @3 @0 ^' k- n6 M0 d4 U9 PYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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7 W. p0 U6 ~ G) {7 WWhat's happening?+ P3 z4 L2 |9 O; h" ~1 S
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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