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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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3 S: ?, f) E% J# H1 aYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"* {: b0 |- l4 v( \7 U, G* m
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How are you?
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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9 \% K' S: R' f' h' @/ d% VNot bad.0 V9 ^6 H6 f, D7 ]$ U$ N
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks. U' @# D# d' S) z Z; W5 a6 i
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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) T3 B7 ]0 Q$ p7 O; GIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?, }- T8 z# u6 i+ ?/ E; I1 r
8 B! i! y: k, s# f8 qThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.# N2 N9 i, B, q# a6 G. Q
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.3 {% M6 h$ G7 L9 Q, w# w8 v
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I've been better.
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& k& D. m* q' ?' q- VPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:- }3 }2 ?1 x* n/ A; D% ?, [' r5 C
, _0 v3 x3 f& g* a7 JA: How are you?
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) r9 g' b$ E& Z0 J$ kB: I've been better.
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4 k; g9 B8 Q( e7 QA: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.7 Z2 l" Q" _9 q: R0 }/ w
+ [0 O/ e" |2 Z2 }0 jHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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: r9 @& t2 A- Y3 ZIt's going well. - l* q9 z3 @9 U9 o. Z
) k. T0 Z0 x* l; T0 N, u% vThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:1 c0 M/ Q2 f! c
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Nothing much.6 \. N* V; g2 F6 I1 H
. R S) K! a E1 |& l$ R* O. q) @This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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. l; r! u, x4 H% l( b+ qNot a lot.
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, Q ]6 J R7 d2 `This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common. }: u) F& J: B. `- r7 @& J
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4 w( \2 F7 y; s) |This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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' P8 |; e# J: n, r0 |6 L* B2 SOh, just the usual.* W: q+ e! ^. C) A, K
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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, H4 D) h9 K) }; u% s7 n; \This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it." Z2 W: I4 ^) X
& ]" t1 a1 _) I6 |0 ~* ZOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.9 V. m1 x5 @7 Z& c
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What's happening?" T* ?( ~5 @3 R3 _ J
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.: p a) Q- _7 H& }6 k. O
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