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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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' n, i+ U: k3 x' y8 LHis wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
# u4 k! J6 p- P6 V- h7 \+ W( TAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
8 F6 K$ m; T# y4 t0 V4 Ihe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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5 X; \6 f2 R6 ^9 v( YAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 2 V/ e/ l4 e$ j/ T
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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! ^" i J* t* q: j+ h"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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! E: v- @7 P/ ]. g! w7 b) y5 M"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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7 a9 D5 m F$ t. L"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 7 u1 O: Y0 |% z) X' C
. m( k- S0 `3 h$ cIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I & Z' N- l, w/ I
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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5 U' A) x5 X6 {6 GEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new . t, d( P/ v# b$ ?
day and all the happy memories I've stored away. Z' y$ |( N& y$ h! @) V W! Y
: w: n9 d% w( U- Z$ yJust for this time in my life. " h; t4 n1 _) _" @8 w: m
' M6 Z) t# |/ ?3 d POld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. : d; a( I( _8 `4 \# b- A% g5 Z/ p
7 t2 V6 k, P- w7 W$ iSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank + ? w6 m2 G0 e& D
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
* N0 [4 C6 k* q" l2 i/ ~I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
7 |# ^$ z' `# h 2. Free your mind from worries.
, q+ P N2 H4 O' g& b% a% q- Y 3. Live simply.
) Y6 M2 J& v" l) L" L, t- ? 4. Give more. + t7 A* f' L$ U2 S, F
5. Expect less. |
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