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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a ! y9 J! f$ b. t5 a& Q+ ^
nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
. q# S% R9 H' d+ i5 QAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
3 i0 i; j1 t' Z' V( F# Ahe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. ; v: U+ p4 L1 @) C3 l$ P: W. h+ W
; r) b7 d6 R& Y3 g' j5 cAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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2 E. b1 l8 u+ j1 ]' g"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." 8 b L/ o( W: m8 w, r$ z2 H
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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. F: _7 z9 |2 n# q* @# z L6 W! @"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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! {1 C8 R, R& `9 H0 a% {I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
( J9 b& Q! N6 a5 h$ fhave with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
5 R! O/ b. g5 f6 @8 band be thankful for the ones that do.
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
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, d2 B4 c' x: |( D+ s; FJust for this time in my life. % q9 x* v* {# T
/ k6 l! A1 _" p" POld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. / h& ]0 P( f5 M ?. e3 t& ]
) v- u- z+ h7 R, J! r9 ISo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank : [9 x& o9 v& V& m1 T! ^' R( L
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
9 `% M* I# {4 q! A; L0 i7 hI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: . u, D+ ` p/ ?; v7 J* F
7 F7 J3 S, i9 e- z& j 1. Free your heart from hatred. / Q8 i- J0 i+ v2 N6 b" y* z& m* \
2. Free your mind from worries.
% |" X+ l7 r, b6 r0 ?3 w 3. Live simply.
& w0 j0 ]( Y4 Q. S, m: i2 M 4. Give more.
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