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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to0 O0 @/ r% X) `, K# R! @6 |
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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think of you.
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4 f* f o: Q; C8 t$ KUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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: U( [. R& N5 H" s, R9 {# }1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.: t* b# L- S# t5 @
2) The second second: Don't think about what to% ]& H, `) W; L" [% e4 H6 s
say—listen for the name.% b/ ^ W4 Z( p( U. i
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.' J6 t, d- Z; w- B: K$ F4 l
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know/ U# `* C- n; ]
with the same name.6 T% J9 `" d, g9 }& p$ H. m
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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