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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to5 I% i6 ]: U2 e0 ]
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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3 k8 e# {7 _, z' B0 kyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will% ^/ P! e% {1 o
think of you.
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! s* p, e6 z z" G! w/ L- ]Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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# P& { X/ `; ?! ~, G, ~( D0 _. w1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.& K5 \% E+ u$ V7 D! Q
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
0 K( B6 T. r2 Ysay—listen for the name.6 J Q. A% S8 @
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
3 p. Y# e3 J9 @! ^9 A# ]$ i/ E4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
4 ^+ r. M/ O6 S& t& V( U8 W @with the same name.# g2 e! Z) K; F% N( A6 p) Z# X
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the4 m9 r5 V$ [: u! {; \( w
end of the conversation.+ C0 ^* r, w* e+ k& R L9 j0 H
: B6 b. Q2 n; E4 f: v/ p5 _---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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