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5 L J' S1 b2 p! P, vSometimes people come into your life
' A! ?* H" b0 I3 e. A8 N$ eyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
: j6 A/ x$ \6 B* f- i( U( Oto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 ^- E! E" y0 A n7 ~( q
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
9 u; A) T# }; fbut when you lock eyes with them,
: Y5 l x Z0 [6 U4 {you know at that very moment,: I& i+ ]2 n! O5 J3 o' }8 p o5 `
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
, \% H6 J# F! L5 W& ?0 r8 R `They are there for the reason you need them to be.
. z9 @$ E7 O5 D' t: Z' yThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
. `: K& ]. _9 iSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
2 I" o2 o, }9 O* \; K# x/ DSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,! }: n( e, {2 Z+ d9 u& u$ I' T. c
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.6 W9 [$ L) @- V) R( q; n' y0 Q
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
9 p# B0 b' E' ?% i; {And now it is time for you to move on.
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( R. g5 k) _ d: U2 ^4 T, XThen people come into your life for a REASON/ r9 k+ R( b2 v, K; ]/ Z
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
8 N, ^2 v: q: m3 g& B9 O" T6 L& ^They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
1 o1 ?& d7 x6 v9 j* cThey may teach you something you have never done.
' p) K/ Z& ~# L3 m9 q5 sThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.; s; L7 t% b' t% N2 n
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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$ B- [- J+ Z3 S! y# fLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
2 q9 K( y6 t6 \5 v& x. [2 @/ ?! i/ ?Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
% [% [3 d! e1 t) |/ APut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 o: n3 D( p Z1 [1 H3 h/ D
Everything happens for a reason.
1 z, t1 z! H0 m* QNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.8 Z: K" W4 T9 q6 ]
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and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul./ K6 s2 W' o) n3 z2 j5 X7 s0 `% z" j
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4 j( C5 B; {1 H2 HIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,3 i) Y4 [4 }# n+ l0 v
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,4 P" }) a. g# _
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,! u- N$ O5 S" U6 A9 l
for they have helped you learn about trust2 J1 ~8 R& h1 R- C: N
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
9 j4 ~$ A- k# p e% {* f6 `; vTry to love them back unconditionally,
3 W3 [2 v# D* P4 B3 xnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
* e" G# Y, K5 ?8 `they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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( j X) }1 q( j/ QThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,* t; r. r8 v4 w$ d% G- R S
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A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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2 l. i6 g- o. C/ }, j1 z8 `God's grace is as a healing hand.+ \( {6 P9 }6 c& r c6 v& d; n, i
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,6 ?* d8 {6 B1 s& C* Z
the warm memories and love for those we have lost) x2 Z {; u/ J9 E; i
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