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~SOMETIMES~7 J$ x5 J' c! S1 N' M7 C
+ N, G- _2 i" `( x) X7 @8 l( a( |, VSometimes people come into your life
+ w+ _: V- j2 I' z' K* E Jyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
* k* ^1 y) _* A* v. r% v; kto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,( @$ j2 V3 G' m- A4 C+ \# a0 G
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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" i) X9 H2 J8 l1 kYou never know who these people may be
& L$ m+ x2 X( Q1 O1 H( kbut when you lock eyes with them,
, [2 [& Z0 X- O Hyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
6 t& T" H1 a* o4 ]They are there for the reason you need them to be.8 R+ `5 J7 V, F: Y
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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9 _: I$ g* j$ QThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.' v8 z; B" x' q% E+ d' u
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 S. _4 M( a% h( S) S, e" J$ @
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.! K9 ^9 ?8 Z, R+ X
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3 p/ @8 ^4 C& o3 v9 qWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
0 `5 {: r6 I! v' X0 hour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
" E% l; e9 t0 UThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
- t1 G+ K/ H" @1 F' K! EAnd now it is time for you to move on.( Y; [. c2 \: ~& ?
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Then people come into your life for a REASON) Z8 v L! y$ x4 A) K) s9 k5 w/ w
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
6 ?: z5 I) n: E3 E/ c* zThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.0 F- U! Q0 Z$ z+ j' k' p
They may teach you something you have never done.
! [ ~; S9 g% r) `9 Q3 cThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
6 h' E; K) d( T. x3 @& yBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦9 \; L2 H. p' y+ I( S
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" K* S: |, U' z! j( r; @: \+ g
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
2 Y7 q* @/ ^6 T# C- LPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.0 M- w- n/ U8 [1 \
Everything happens for a reason.
+ f; Y4 z5 `* b t! n* JNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
# ]% u9 i: Q8 W; t8 u8 gIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
9 v! M; S* ~! N/ p) \1 t' |- Uand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.9 u& F* ~5 j9 R
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,8 T ?5 O) ^/ j( B5 P
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,# O- ^6 e: F2 I: @" z
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,7 O0 j4 N8 I7 i
for they have helped you learn about trust \# {) n1 }- r
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.. x1 `, [4 |* w% U+ m
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,* i: G& [( E' _3 H! r" G
Try to love them back unconditionally,, o, @; U7 g9 ^' C
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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6 F _# k7 b" D& Y! D# |( LThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,7 m# N1 t G% W3 w( `3 G
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
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and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
9 D* x% v6 t* j$ r3 }8 [; O' FGod's grace is as a healing hand.
# ?* T. B6 D" y. }1 w6 e; oAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
$ j9 U/ A( A2 _+ _ O4 C+ Bthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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