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Sometimes people come into your life2 g5 | m9 w9 ]7 m
you know right away that they were meant to be there,% G: T7 a5 w2 K4 X- Q% ~2 c
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,1 s0 x' _ m$ f* o
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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& Y- j9 c. L1 w& O" j& AYou never know who these people may be7 q( O1 E8 z8 Z! W- h7 d8 C2 Z0 k
but when you lock eyes with them,
3 Y- i( Y2 o2 H3 ayou know at that very moment,) o# v) B' K' v% K: y$ C. H- T
1 W& {. K. m6 C7 y( tThey will affect your life in some profound way4 E% x% W8 U7 n
]1 c. O8 J+ s- u. M2 V7 @9 HThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!6 ^& J) a, {/ |1 {7 g4 U8 ?
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
$ J6 H+ ]' C* ?Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end." U. s& Y& I0 Q1 @' _& ~8 L
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.2 o7 [: Y# M7 s$ ]2 J& S
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand./ Q, A8 f& B) Y6 b* n
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& I& f( A$ X9 f, @5 jWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,- T: Q# u" s2 o7 d2 E' P
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
; O# |9 N* ~( q2 R3 W: hThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
% u$ O8 O O2 o6 TAnd now it is time for you to move on.4 N5 c: e3 j3 n
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- e& u x! G9 {* f8 O+ q) s1 jThen people come into your life for a REASON
* j; v+ e5 p& k) l0 d$ wBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.$ Z# X, @# `2 H9 T$ q
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
: p* F% ^8 y( ~/ r, pThey may teach you something you have never done.8 U+ A1 H- [0 R) \; f2 f
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
- Z6 _) k) p% j8 w( ^" s& f/ pBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
( L4 _7 z ]+ w# iYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
* A" R- B" q* r9 }/ f# L# G) _Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
+ |, y+ \4 j" lEverything happens for a reason.
) V$ L. I T' F5 V6 e( K" B: ANothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 Y6 j: c- I2 x% L. }8 R
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
, }1 T/ Y9 K9 Z% ]5 Gand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,4 N* d/ a! H, V( U0 i; }; t7 G, T8 {
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
: W8 E/ { P4 k8 J* G" BIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
- q9 s* ^" k j: \$ p c+ t$ \& @for they have helped you learn about trust. F; Q) M/ q9 h J/ P1 H
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.0 v% i/ P4 N$ i9 t. @
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,: o, b& } q- b1 s7 t- h- d! R
Try to love them back unconditionally,2 L1 V5 _$ b+ P3 }& g
not only because they love you, but because in a way,0 G" S4 g1 ], I0 o
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,1 \) e7 ^6 O, R4 p7 i6 z
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.' V& }" f* F9 ^& W3 c1 P
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,2 P- G/ r9 ~6 \- b! A4 m
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
1 P/ o! w+ C+ N! qGod's grace is as a healing hand.
- w% {0 } j8 O* M3 T8 CAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,3 R% C4 X7 P) P3 ?* Z
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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