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/ y8 X+ b: h+ q7 E> What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line,
3 g/ D2 ^: W+ o, \; n. {> there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the6 z5 H+ A3 l9 y/ m T
> same choice?
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> At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children,
4 b8 m9 W5 p, W! ]1 f> the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be
: y* z# l0 }; |2 C> forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated
1 J+ b4 R* Z9 n! E> staff, he offered a question:& \! O9 w0 m6 r5 a+ r3 [4 C
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2 S, ~- }3 _# h3 {5 b> 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is
# \& x4 _9 }. z# d( |> done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other. H5 |5 s6 r( j0 `
> children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the7 C' M+ c% ^% h
> natural order of things in my son?'
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> The audience was stilled by the query.
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> The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, physically1 [! K4 r$ e s: Z- l) g
> and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize2 }4 R0 ~1 z* F5 M) Q" L
> true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people
8 n" e7 M3 G" M& K5 f- s& Q6 Q# v> treat that child.'
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> Then he told the following story:
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( B) T2 Q- W; Y* x f( \> Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were
9 h, @% e; [" e/ l> playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' Shay's
' s3 s. `/ V, ?9 J \- K2 @0 u1 T& W> father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their
* W% d* K E1 y- g2 b' t/ J> team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play,
. O1 \: y9 X$ d# ~; C5 I) K+ J> it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be
9 z2 [9 O5 M U* l3 e( D S> accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
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> Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not6 M2 P; S+ z. ~3 \8 s
> expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and
/ J6 ~; @" R9 d, \' I) s5 }> said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I* q* {6 ~$ z, Y7 j4 r
> guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth
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7 p3 r' I" ^9 a( B2 R1 t> Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a) B5 O* e0 h+ @6 W+ y) M% D& H/ g% E
> team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in2 y7 r# m5 [) Q( A
> his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the
( O& r# G+ M4 b> bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still
# v, j6 t6 V* Y> behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and
. A1 W3 W/ q1 S8 ~7 u" M> played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was0 P4 t$ v( w0 O% M& e0 T
> obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from5 r2 B$ Y3 U, o5 h( Y2 _4 M
> ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the: Z" B# i# X& [- Q* ]- a- `: ~2 h* y
> ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases' d" r# `6 A9 U# H& ^! ~' ]- n
> loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be
X# A$ G$ s3 I2 W* w6 n4 W% y> next at bat.
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7 e# Z! C- Y E9 d> At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the' N; @- o9 }) O6 _2 `$ z
> game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat Everyone knew that a hit was all' j1 i+ X) \! R4 n) H2 f* N p
> but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly,8 n+ P4 F/ u) l0 P/ N% d) Y, U
> much less connect with the ball.
% ^2 \" N9 ?' z A> However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the
- K: ~ j, z W: O0 P! m> other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved
3 w3 S/ e/ i/ b% j5 w1 M* ~0 K> in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make! Y3 v R3 {& C2 v
> contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The: v+ s6 h3 X/ a7 Y8 N( y' A+ _# p
> pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
; m3 {4 ?- m% [! x$ ]> As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball
( n3 p9 E: N' Y> right back to the pitcher.9 U7 \1 ]- E6 b' M1 ^7 g: D. |
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> The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and1 x6 t( i: y Q, |4 t0 R
> could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been3 Q9 d. G* X9 c" n1 S% c
> out and that would have been the end of the game.1 q- w# ~& I9 L$ I0 N% ?0 q
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1 l" e5 Q" _9 _7 _ M- L8 b> Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out2 Y$ q! P! |2 L: \1 [% Y. P
> of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started
j+ U* I2 \2 d. H2 S' S> yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!' Never in his life had Shay ever. L; o% Y, q5 @
> run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline,4 J9 w6 @+ Q6 W
> wide-eyed and startled.5 ~% Z& c0 c- b6 l7 ~
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> Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath, Shay! N) z8 ?) C8 e; _% q/ k2 A" f, Z* `
> awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the0 s6 j( ^2 r; K+ N: U6 F' [: P
> base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had4 L( k4 t/ P. i! ~: n
> the ball ... The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to# x( [4 U3 C" w( l9 H% c% l
> be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the
2 [- H# k- N! J% {6 {> second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intention So he,# M. _8 I- c* T' w$ a
> too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's8 u1 p* V* @( v; S+ s, X2 `
> head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him
' k/ i% T9 [ ~& t> circled the bases toward home.& Y0 Q, [' [8 P3 F- E6 W; j
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' x3 j; H/ {2 N o1 U> All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'% s- f5 \' a3 w% _+ g4 ?/ {, t
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! j: I" N; i' ]( j> Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by
* W( L, k6 b% E, X4 K* M& U! N) A2 [> turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!3 t% Z5 l, R& `0 N$ h$ S
> Shay, run to third!'
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> As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on! C- ] m" A9 g& E ], I
> their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped
& {* j: S- V& o I> on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the: w2 M' s. n' W( U( Y
> game for his team.5 c; J. Z ]' Y' `$ `4 s, i) k- T
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> 'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,
3 d7 q" g# V6 ] C+ w> 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity$ t1 J0 j& Q/ S# K& j
> into this world'.6 G! f- p- q& i/ `) A
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' r' X/ y4 p% W k/ d0 t> Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never- W0 s' r0 i# O# Y. {. C! d" ?
> forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and6 e# ?. I1 Z7 U# I Z ?( y _
> seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
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2 Z! R8 p$ v5 z @# Z% _> AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes
% s; H1 x R) k9 F" ]; C> through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending! c$ m+ l7 Q1 R
> messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often
/ j- r7 i) X; t. F> obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency# ?1 H: o# `' a! {. D
> is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.
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; k! s2 J% q' r% L4 C> If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're# u* @. i$ {% k% A7 p
> probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the8 k9 ^6 q- S8 b# w; V
> 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who* Y/ ?# [5 ~2 |, s y# o; y9 }
> sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have& `7 l3 x) T1 H: c# ]
> thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the 'natural3 v9 I* k, B( V% H1 D( N
> order of things.' So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people
( @6 b# K& g/ f% t4 i> present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and& T! H' A% A, C: I) v
> humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little
P" O( d8 w; X7 u3 A( H> bit colder in the process?/ g `; i; _9 |
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> A wise man once said every society is judged by
% ~5 B9 F" P6 U0 [- g& I1 D> how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them./ J/ e( Y9 D3 k
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$ a" I M( K4 I> You now have two choices:# n! U# j* d- _3 \- J. L$ D! ]8 y
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> 2. Forward. E5 Y3 r2 L9 t8 J
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3 v8 l' m- d* H> May your day, be a Shay Day. |
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